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I have this friend andi wrote her and her new best friend a note saying u do everything together and i think i got them really mad at me and now when i say im sry they just say shut up and she tells people she doesnt want to be my friend anymore
what should i do?
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A friend that doesn't consider your feelings isn't a good friend in my opinion. The fact that you wrote the note says to me that you were trying to save your friendship. You shouldn't have to apologize for the note. You have every right to be upset about being excluded. Personally I would drop this friend and find someone who is a true friend and cares about how you feel. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh, but a true friend wouldn't do what you've said here.
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What you did wasnt wrong..you may have said it nasty which may be why she doesnt want to talk talk to you. But if my friend told me to shut up!..then shes not even worth the effort. I would forget about both those b****es and just move on. If they cant forgive you after you've said sorry repeatedly then they're ReAllY immature and stupid.. Dont waste your time.
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I think you should of told them in person, but you can't help but being honest. They are just immature & can't take the truth. When you talk to them, tell them to grow up and stop being so childish. You didn't mean to get them mad at you but you were just saying the truth and if they can't accept that, they can just back off. It may suck that they are mad at you, but they will get over it. Give it a week or 2.
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well i would write another note and ask somebody to give her the note saying what you meant...maybe that would help you with that problem...♥ alley
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