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i hate my life.
I hate my life. Here's a little bit about it.
I have un diagnosed a.d.d or adhd, i'm 14, I ive in the stupidest town ever, i suck at everything i do, i <b><i>hate</i></b> my family, i do not work up to my potencial, i'm ugly, i'm too skinny, i'm not allowed to have ''too much fun'', i'm not allowd to have a girlfriend, i'm constantly depressed, i dont have any friends because i'm too much of a ''geek'', i get many racist jokes cracked about me every day.
i just dont know what to do, i just got in a big fight with my parents and I didn't realize until now, just how much i HATE my life.
please help me.
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I think I understand how you feel. Being a teenager is hard enough but after you pile on all these other things it makes it seem almost impossible. I have undiagnosed manic depression...and I sometimes feel like you do. I get where you are coming from with the problems with your parents. If you ever just want to talk you can email me at pvbandfreak@yahoo.com or my aim sn is pvbandfreak
Love,
Kate
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ok , so you have a.d.d. so does just about everyone in america . You live in a stupid town , get good grades go to college make money and move out ! your probably not ugly and you may be skinny but who cares ! you just want to pick at any little thing to feel sorry for yourself . so your not aloud to have a girlfriend , the way you talk about yourself no girl would want to be with you . you don't have friends because your depresed and no one likes people who are down so find something to look foward to like you leaving your stupid town and get happy ! then maybe if you smile and join in a conversation you'll have some friends . people crack jokes at you because you let them . when they see your depressed and everything gets to you , your an easy target to pick . use your mouth and say something back ! figure out what you really hate then try to fix it because its not normal to hate everything ! good luck.
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First off, if its undiagnosed, then don't tell people you have it. Reading about it doesn't always cut it. Now, find stuff to occupy your time. If you're just going to mope around saying your life sucks, then its going to. If you put an honest effort into making it better, chances are you wont find yourself depressed. As for the racist jokes, ignore them. It'll be hard to do, but you'll discover that wont be as badass if you don't even pay any attention to them. As for being a geek, well thats just who you are. You'll find friends. Hell, if I can manage to get friends anyone can. As for not being allowed to do much or having a girlfriend, you're fourteen. Those things will change as you get older. Don't worry, you only end up what you make yourself to be.
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your problem is you're a negative thinker. Lots of people have been dealt way worse cards in life then you and have gone on to be very successful and respected members of society.
Okay lets start with you living in the "stupidist town ever". Well you can do nothing about where you live so lets move on to "I am 14", also another thing you can do nothing about. Okay "I suck at everything I do". Well I'm sure there must be a least ONE thing you can do well, am I right? You then go on to say you hate your family, well would you like to elaborate on that part? What is so terrible about them? Maybe they are just trying to help you but you want them to leave you alone.
Okay, and you think you're ugly, skinny, depressed, and a geek. Well this is all in you're head. I think you have low self esteem.
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Hey, just change your whole style and gain a few pounds or start working out and get buff. Try your hardest to get along with your parents. I never did get along with my parents but then I went to couseling and I didn't think it would help. But, it helped alot. Now I am a total different person. Like I said just change your whole style and maybe get some counseling. It will help. Believe me.
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just dont talk!!! DuH!!
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I know its tough but hang in there and PLEASE do not do somthing you will regret. teen years are the hardest and many people are going through the same thing as you are. I know it may seem as though you are the only one in the world who thinks they have a terrible life but there are many others. It sounds like you have had a rough few days but remember that there are peolple who are much worse off than you. And remember that there are people that do love you. if this problem countinues with the things like the jokes take it to a school counsler, or if your school does not have one take it to a teacher you trust or principle. best wishes!
~Smalls~
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Its common for people to hate there life. Sometimes I think I hate my life too. And yes, I'm diagnosed with something like you have, which is Test Anxiety, which can be cured, and if you get help you can get a bit better too. I'm sure that you have something that your good at, drawing, playing an instrument,a sport, collecting things like rocks or something. Dont ever say your ugly. It seems to me that your very self concious. Instead of saying your ugly and too skinny, say that if people dont like you for you, then thats there problem. Your 14, dont worry about girls this soon, 14 is a silly age to have a relationship in my opinion. I'm not aloud to date until i'm 16, which is understandable. You need to find your true self before having a relationship. People who say racist jokes towards you is just pathetic, they are immature and should not be talking smack about a person's race. I suggest, even thougth you might not like this, to go talk to a guidence counselor. I used to have many issues and they helped me out a lot, and I'm not angry about my life anymore. Good Luck hun. If you ever need a friend IM me at MusicChick42891
-Brina
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Hey there! Life will always have it's ups, including it's downs--there's no doubt to that. But it's all up to us on how we take these happenings. We can either see them as a way to grow and advance in life--or something that will bring us down. And if we don't grow through these experiences or hurt, we aren't necessarily living. Someone once said that "Life is 10 percent of what happens to me and 90 percent how I react to it." So really, life is not WHAT happens to us, but really HOW WE VIEW LIFE. And because you are the owner of your life, the first thing to do is accept yourself, and when you see something you don't like, get up and change it. Look at both your weaknesses and strengths that make you as person, and when you find something you'd want to change, change it. Only YOU have the power to change these things in your life. Don't sit down and mope about what you don't have and hate yourself for your past mistakes. If you want to be a person that works up to their potential, get to it and start working your best. If you want to have more friends, go out there and start being a person who's more open and have more friends. And if you also want to stop sticking to the negative side of life, then it's about time doing so. Everything is your decision, and most espeically, life is what you make it.
I really hope everything will work out, and if you need anything else, just hit me up on the inbox. Take care....
<3, normie
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