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Q: is it a sin to kiss before marriage if your a christian?

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Q: I’m really into fashion and my parents know that. My mom and I have talked about me going to an art school before and she wouldn't mind if I did. I have a very good chance of getting into UCLA but there is one problem--my dad. He refuses to let me go to an art school. He wants me to go to UT (Texas) which is where he went. I'm in the top 10% of my class so I'm in automatically there. He told me that in the end it was my decision but if I decided to go to UCLA then he wouldn't pay for it. UCLA is an expensive school and it'll be even more since I'll be coming in out of state and I won't be able to pay for it on my own. I need my dad. I tried to get my mom to talk to him about it but it didn't help. So now I don't know what to do-- go to UCLA and pay for it on my own (which I most likely be able to do) or go to UT and have my dad pay for it. What do you think?

It sounds like your in a very tough situation. The best advice i can give you is to go to art school if thats whats you really want. I understand the money situation may be toBugh but just make sure you keep up your grades, they will help u get scollarships to help pay.think of it this way, wouldnt you rather have your dad pay for u to go to somewhere you hate or would you rather work extra hard for somthing you love?
Best wishes!!!!!!

~Smalls~

Q: I hate my life. Here's a little bit about it.
I have un diagnosed a.d.d or adhd, i'm 14, I ive in the stupidest town ever, i suck at everything i do, i hate my family, i do not work up to my potencial, i'm ugly, i'm too skinny, i'm not allowed to have ''too much fun'', i'm not allowd to have a girlfriend, i'm constantly depressed, i dont have any friends because i'm too much of a ''geek'', i get many racist jokes cracked about me every day.

i just dont know what to do, i just got in a big fight with my parents and I didn't realize until now, just how much i HATE my life.

please help me.

I know its tough but hang in there and PLEASE do not do somthing you will regret. teen years are the hardest and many people are going through the same thing as you are. I know it may seem as though you are the only one in the world who thinks they have a terrible life but there are many others. It sounds like you have had a rough few days but remember that there are peolple who are much worse off than you. And remember that there are people that do love you. if this problem countinues with the things like the jokes take it to a school counsler, or if your school does not have one take it to a teacher you trust or principle. best wishes!

~Smalls~

Q: When does softball season start? How long should I prepare for the try-outs?

well it depends on what school you go to and the school district. or are u planning on trying out for a select team outside of school?

~Smalls~

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