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i need more friends
ok ;so i'm like the MOST SHY PERSON YOU WILLEVER MEET!!
how do you meet friends i keep getting imbarsed whenever i try mostly i just sit next to anyone at lunch and say hi................its so difficult for me i need help.........please anyone
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It's not bad to be shy...but thats not always a good thing. There really is no need to be embarrased or shy. Just look at the possibilities of speaking up:
You could make great friends. You could realize a lot about yourself. Hey you never know...you could be charming, funny. Just keep it all together, it could change a lot just to show who you are.
-Iris
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first off dont be scared to take a chance.be forward.go up to someone and introduce yourself.let people know that you want a friend .i know it doesnt seem that easy but there are four easy steps from being shy to being outgoing and optimistic
1:take a deep breath
2:get up
3:go up to someone
4:introduce yourself
and wella a new friend.well..... i know that you can do it.lots of love here i believe in you you will have a great amount of friends with just these 4 easy steps.lotz- of-love-here.love you .dana
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Lol, I second that one.
I just moved schools & I know exactly what you're going through. Like, it was seriously the horriblest thing ever. And it took a while for me to actually meet people & have confidence in myself. For the first week of school, I'd sit alone & go to the bathroom and eat my lunch. Hah I know how geeky is that? I met most of my friends from one girl that was in my Biology class. Thank hayzeus I met her, otherwise I'd probably be friendless right now. Anyways, a couple of my other friends are from my bus & from my neighborhood. Some are from band & the rest of my classes! You need to join clubs or extracurricular activities. You'll be able to meet people that have the same interests as you. It'll be nice. :)
Plus, you need to watch out for other people who are new, and don't have many friends that sit alone, too! Because they'll just want someone to talk to as bad as you! (: You could talk to your counselor as well, because I'm sure they can find someone to set you up with to sit with @ lunch & hang out with.
At lunch, you could compliment someone just sitting close to you. They'll notice you're sitting by yourself & probably invite you over to eat lunch w/ them too! If you ever need to talk about anything like this, just leave one in my inbox!! :) I know exactly what you're going through!
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okay, calm down a little bit... i know how you feel because i used to be like that, but you neeeed to start opening up more. express yourself by wearing your style, & not being scared of what people think of you. if somethings on your mind, dont be scared to say it and dont be suprised if people dont like what your saying.. but it will at least let people get to know you a little bit and they could be like hey she seems really cool and want to get to know you. well if you need ne more advice drop some love in my inbox
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