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Cuzin Probs
Me and my cuzin have been pretty kool since my brother died. We have stuck together and all. She gives me rides to skool and does anything I ask her to do. She would jump in front of a buss for me! I'd do the same. But she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend is our hired hand. He's 26 and she's 16. I hate them together. If you have any suggestions of how I can talk to her let me know! Here she comes! Bye!
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Wow. That is a big age difference. Talk to your cousin about how you feel and tell her that you think you guys arn't right together. It's not your decision that you can make for her. But you can help her decide.
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-KendallSki03
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Threaten her. Tell her you will report this forbidden love to the police. The law will save you, my dear.
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are you jealous or do you TRULY not like them together?
decide that first. once you have..talk to your cousin but dont come out saying "GOD I HATE U AN/AM JEALOUS OF YOUR BOYFRIEND(TOGETHER)!!!! DONT BE WITH THE BASTARD ANYMORE!!!!!" when you are talking privately say to your cuz something like "hey uhm, do you REALLY like *her bf's name*? i mean you guys are kinda a odd couple. no offense or anything i love you! but come on.."
then just take it fromt here telling her how you feel and everything..
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Well, it's really her choice who she wants to date. As much as you hate the guy or see how bad he is with your cousin there isn't much you can really do to break them up, which I think is what you want to do. All you really can do is talk to your cousin about it. You two are really close so it shouldn't be hard. Let her know how you feel about her boyfriend and WHY. Don't hurt her feelings or offend her though. Just let her know that you really don't like this guy and it has nothing to do with her. Since she trusts you and loves you and all she will listen to what you say even if she doesn't change her mind. It's important for her to know how you feel. However, you didn't give a reason as to why you hate your cousin's boyfriend. If there isn't really a reason why, then maybe you should rethink your feelings towards him. Since you and your cousin are so close you may just be being overprotective of her, which isn't a bad thing, but it can be. If this is the case, you'll get used to the guy with time and it would probably be better not to say too much to your cousin about it. You don't want to break up her happy relationship for a silly reason. You do need to say something to her though so she knows how you feel. What you're going through can be really hard, but just remember that even if your cousin gets hurt you will be there to comfort her. I hope that everything works out and good luck!
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The truth is there IS no way to tell her without hurting her a little bit im so sorry to say that.
Tell her your worried about her and that he is older and it is scaring you that he's older then her. Maybe you could figure out a way of going round there when he isnt or spending quality time with her. If your that close you should be sure that she will confide in you if he starts getting scary with her. Hope my advice helps and Good Luck!
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are you saying you like your cousin? im confused. But thats cool that you have that kind of relationship with your cousin that you guys are that close.Talk to her about how you feel, just ask her to hang out sometime just the two of you, and just talk about how you feel.If you do like your cousin, im not sure you guys will have a relationship thats romantic because i mean your cousins, maybe just keep things how they are now.
hope i could help!
♥ danielle
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