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me being mean,...
ok i have alot of guy friends,...but a little less girl ones,...anyway, i'm kind of violent...like if someone does something to me i'll beat the crap out of them and today i was with my guy friend's girlfriend((also my friend)) and he was like "YOU BETTER NOT BE MESSIN WITH MY GIRLFRIEND!" and i just gave him a strange look and then he goes "please dont hurt me" like he was a helpless dog,...how can i like not be so mean and violent?
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Ok, this really works when you're angry. Take a deep breath.
Think before you act. Don't think violently. I used to be the same way when I was a lot younger (I tried to act like the "tough girl"). Just think about how people would react to you being violent.
This is a tought question to answer, so my advice is probably bad from your vantage point. Heh.
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Sounds like it happens so often that you are now being teased about it.
Here are some websites that might help you get your anger under control.
Good luck.:)
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You need to think about what you're doing when you beat people up. Are you resolving the issue between you and this person? Heck no. You're bullying them because of something they probably said about you or to you. Are you aware of how bad it makes a person looks when they fight people over something somebody said? That is why you don't have very many girlfriends, they are afraid of you, they don't want to risk having a disagreement with you and getting beaten and threatened over it. The only people that are friends with you are friends that aren't scared of you......boys. Now you know the truth, you are violent and a bully. If somebody says something about you or to you, don't go and pick a fight with them. Insult them back or something else and move on from that person. Use your head rather than your hands to fight, because I'm telling you that if you keep this as a method of solving problems, you'll be defending yourself all of your life. The best you can do is worry about making friends rather worrying about the enemies, and worrying about who you are mad at. Tons of people will be mean to you in your life, but do you think you can keep this up? Probably not. You do not know how bad it is to beat people up. You need to start just making friends, and not gossiping, or talking about beating someone up. Look at some of the other girls you know that have a lot of friends. You know why that girl has so many friends, shes nice to just about everyone, and doesn't worry about the downside of bad friendships and how she plains on making a friend suffer. That is your biggest reason to quit the violence. For other people's sake. When someone is mean to you, don't be the one who gives them their punishment, they'll get it, in a matter of days months, or years later. Don't be the one to decide what happens to them, or it will just bite you instead.
-TheTeenGirl
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Dear Me Being Mean,
When you're around your friends (guys and girls), try not t be so sensitive. If they tell a joke, and it happens to be about you, just laugh and act like you don't care. Try to be friendly and sympathetic to them, and accept apologies before you start beating up on them again.Soon they'll come to realize that you're not mean and violent, you just can sometimes have a bit of a temper. In your head, try the ancient idea of counting to ten. It will actually work. Cool down, and think about it before you start punching.
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im the same way.... i have the same amount of friends that are girls and guys but i dont hang with the girls as much... let me guess you have brothers? lol well... try to just not think about beating people...vent when your mad, try to not hit people as much when your joking around, try not to think about it and avoid fights....
-alex
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