Member Since: November 2, 2005
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Last Update: November 3, 2005
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my sister's letting me babysit her baby more and more. and i liked at at first. but now it's getting ayyoning. like last time i had to be there by 6.30 AM. im thinking of asking for 2.50 an hour,and i dont wanna be selfesh and greedy, but with her i have to be really flexible. should i charge her money, sotp whining and just do it, or just not do it at all. (link)
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I think that you should sit down and have a talk with your sister. Explain to her how you can't be there for her all the time, and maybe she should hire a back-up babysitter. Then ask her if you could have a raise because you're with the baby so often. If you don't agree with the times, like being there at 6:30, tell her, but make sure you explain why. Maybe you guys can come to an agreement and set a limit on hours. Hope all goes well.
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ok i have alot of guy friends,...but a little less girl ones,...anyway, i'm kind of violent...like if someone does something to me i'll beat the crap out of them and today i was with my guy friend's girlfriend((also my friend)) and he was like "YOU BETTER NOT BE MESSIN WITH MY GIRLFRIEND!" and i just gave him a strange look and then he goes "please dont hurt me" like he was a helpless dog,...how can i like not be so mean and violent? (link)
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Dear Me Being Mean,
When you're around your friends (guys and girls), try not t be so sensitive. If they tell a joke, and it happens to be about you, just laugh and act like you don't care. Try to be friendly and sympathetic to them, and accept apologies before you start beating up on them again.Soon they'll come to realize that you're not mean and violent, you just can sometimes have a bit of a temper. In your head, try the ancient idea of counting to ten. It will actually work. Cool down, and think about it before you start punching.
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i have a problem my bfs a i guess you could say wigger. and im i guess a "rocker" im not all that into labels but ive been dating him 4 2 mouths and everyone keeps saying it wont last becuz we have nothing at all in common and latly ive been thinking about it to i mean we cant talk about anything and the one thing i talk about the most he doesnt like ((whitch is Rock music)) he listens to rap and i hate rap but i realli dont no what i should do i mean i like him but we cant talk about anything and he a little on the shy side and i normaly dont like shy guys (( dateing whys)) im so confused about this. (link)
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Dear Confused,
I think you should stay with this guy and get to know him better. Don't let what other people say get into your head. Make your own choice. If you're not happy when you're around him, dump him. But, if he can make you laugh, smile, and you feel happy when you're around him, stick with him - who knows, maybe it'll end up as a life-long relationship. Just because you have some differences in opinions doesn't mean you should end a relationship. Soon enough you'll find that having different interests is a fun thing to talk about. I hope you make a decision that suits you.
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