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Kissing
Well my boyfriend and I have been going out for awhile and i think he wants to kiss me becuase he always leans in and i pull back because i really dont want to kiss yet cuz i think its to early. I already had my first kiss and it sucked becuase i didnt even know that guy. And i want this one to be special. And my boyfriend doesnt know i have kiss someone and he hasnt kissed any one so. My friend thinks he will get mad because i already kissed someone. Should i not like make a big deal about it? I mean its not that big a deal that i kiss someone and he hasnt he should get over it. Its not like the kisses that i got a big deal they didnt mean anything to me and his will because we are really close. So should i tell him that i kissed someone before but not when i was with him and that they didnt mean anything or just forget it? Well i know its going to come out that i did kiss someone because it almost did like 4 times but i stopped it.
Sorry this was long
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well i think you should tell him. If he can't seem to get over it that means he can't trust you and obviously he is not the right person for you. Just go ahead and tell him the truth
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He won't be able to tell you've kissed anyone before. I don't think it is anything to bother telling.
Go ahead and kiss the guy. It will be special because it is him you are kissing. Don't wait around for the perfect moment. Make one instead. :)
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Psh, he won't care. It's not a big deal at all. Just kiss him! If you want it to be special, then set the mood. Make it romantic. I can see how it would be a bigger deal if you're younger. How old are you?
I know this advice totally sucked. Sorry.
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If you don't feel comfortable telling him about what you have done in the past, then you don't have to. And he should not care about it. Like you have said, it's not a big deal.
If you don't want to tell him that you've already been kissed, then don't. But, you should probably explain to him that you want to wait to kiss because you want it to be special. That way, he won't just think that you don't like him when you pull away.
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