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confused
okay, what should I do...I really like this girl and she says she likes me also but she has a boyfriend. We hang out quite and lot and have the best time because we are practically best friends. I want to stop liking her but I know the only way to do that is to stop talkin to her because if I do that makes me only liek her more. I tried doing this already but she got really upset and really sad and said it hurt her most out of anything, knowing she was loosing me...I dont know what to do...because we are such close friends and I really do love her
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Maybe you should be honest and just tell her that you just want to be friends...Sure it'll hurt her at first but then shell understand and everything will be fine! Hope I Helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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I think you should tell her how you feel. Talk to her about it. Maybe it'll make you feel better. Hope this helped you. Good luck!
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She is already in a relationship. If she cared enough she would leave the other guy for you. Don't trust her (believe me I"m a girl...I know how we think!) Don't let her think of you as a "fall back".
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Just go with the flow. If she realy loves you, she might dump his B/F. Just get to know her and talk to her and someday you can tell her. And if things go bad, just dont think about her. If you keep busy, You'll keep your mind on other things.
I wish you best of luck :-D
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Dear Confused,
Did you mean it when you said "I want to stop liking her"? What about "I really do love her."
She has you very confused. Not talking to her is only going to break her heart and leave a hole in yours. Try finding another girl with similar qualities, and get to know her. Double date with your best friend and her boyfriend. If you do this, a couple of things could happen:
A) Your best friend will be very happy for you and you might find someone you can love as much as her.
B) Your best friend will become jealous and realize she loves you and leave her current boyfriend for you.
I am not saying use someone to get your friend to leave her boyfriend. That's not fair to the girl who may get hurt if possibility B happens. Your friend has a boyfriend she obviously loves or she would be with you instead. You are important to her, but you should try and find someone else to give your passion to. You will always have place in your heart for your friend and if he comes to you, it will be there good as new. What ever you do, keep spending time with her and above all be honest. What ever you do, GOOD LUCK
Sincerely,
Honestymatters
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hun you are going through the EXACT same thing as me.. i've been wondering that too but to be honest, dont stop talking to her. it hurts more to lose her as a friend. especially a BEST friend. just wait it out till her and her boyfriend break up.. itll happen eventually, and then youll have a best friend and a girlfriend
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