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best friend likes same guy i do and wont tell me!!
OMG!!!!! I AM SOO ANGRY RIGHT NOW ok sorry well i like this guy lets call him chris and he likes my best friend lets call her ash. well chris talks about ash to me all the time and i kinda ignore it and he was going to ask ash out and ash was like oo no i would never do that to you. and that was cool and all and i can tell she likes him but w.e. so theres the winter dance coming up and i asked chris if he was gonna ask ash and he said probally not and i told ash he wasnt going to ask her and she said good i wouldnt go with him any way cause you like him...totally cool so far right? well tonite he asked her to the winter dance and she said probally but i dont know yet but its probally a yes. and she hasnt told me or anything it makes me so upset not the fact that chris is going with my best friend but that she said she would never do that to me and she is. it really hurts my feelings im crying so much...i dont know wat to do...sorry if this isnt really like a questions it just upset me soo much and sorry it was soo long
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Hi sweetie,
I really think you should talk to your friend about everything. If she says she doesn't like him, then there is no reason for her to go to the dance with him. Just tell her that you really want to know, and that it is important to you. Now, if she goes to this dance with him after telling you she's not going to and that she don't like him, then i think you should stop talking to her for a while. A true friend would always tell you the truth.
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sorry =/ but you can't get yourself worked up over some guy. I mean would you want to ruin the relationship you have with your bestest friend for some guy? Theres the saying "there's plenty of fish in the sea". But I would try talking to her about it. Just ask her why she would do that to you after she told you she wouldn't? Just try and talk it out with her. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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well if i were you and im not i would not get all upset about some guy who you probly wont see after u graduate high school there are plenty of fish in the sea!!!!
Miranda
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Your friend sounds really rude if she actually considered going to the dance with Chris. I think you better go and talk to her about it. I know it seems impossible, like you won't be able to, but you have to find out if your friend is going to do this to you or not. Stop crying and go tell her how you felt when you heard about her thinking of going to the dance with him. You don't want to get yourself worked up until you know for sure that this is going to happen. If she decides to go, then you should probably tell her that if she goes, it means your friendship with her. So, you have to ask her to chose between Chris and you.
-TheTeenGirl
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There is only one way to get to the bottom of your dalema. Tell your friend that it is going to end your friendship if she lies to you. Just because he likes her and not you is no reason for you to be mad at her. Do not get mad at her for changing her mind about going out with him. She likes him but does not want to hurt you. DO GET MAD AT HER FOR NOT BEING HONEST WITH YOU. There are plenty of guys out there and we do not always get the one we want. Talk to her, tell her you want the truth and you will give her best wishes with Chris. Ask her to ask Chris if he has a single friend that wants to double date to the dance. Be happy for her, who knows, while they are dating he may get to know you and realize he likes you better. Don't try and steal him, be honest and tell her that if it doesn't work out between them, that you would date him if he asked you out. Above all be honest and be a good friend. Good friends just want their friends to be happy. Encourage her to be honest with you, don't say you'll do one thing and do another. It hurts, but you cannot make him like you. The next time he talks about her to you, tell him how you feel. Ask him to stop and tell him that it kills you inside because you have liked him longer than your friend has. Do not let this guy come between you. Be her friend and find someone else to like. It will seem hard to do at first, but there is someone else waiting for you to like them, you just have to look past Chris.
GOOD LUCK
Honestymatters
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