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is it right?
Problem- Last year, CA and CB were best friends. CA use to go out with BG, but BG dumped her in August, but CA is still very inlove with him. Now they both have gone put with a couple of other people, but ofcurse CA still loves him. Now, at the end of October, BG starts to like CB, and vise versa. CA is super mad at CB because she said that "best friends are not supose to go out with people that there friend likes." Well to make a long story short CB and BG go out for like a week, and CA is SUPER mad at CB for doing that. Now CA's new best friend is KM. Well KM has liked ZK for about a week now, and and had heard that he might ask her out. Well CA decides about a week after KM told her she liked ZK that CA likes him too, but she knows that KM liked him first. Well the next time CA and KM see ZK, ZK asks CA out, and CA says yes.
Now here is the question- Don't you think it is wrong of what Ca did to KM? CA got all mad at CB for "breaking the rule" and going out with BG, but then the next week she does the same thing to KM.
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dude stop using letters you are so stupid get a life!
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yes i dothink that it was wrong. and i think you all should get together and talkit out(and by all i mean ca cb and km).
i hope i helped
sexi_lexi
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Well, you know, sometimes you just can't help how you feel. But I'm not sure this applies in this situation.
CA kind of reminds me of a friend of mine who would only fall for boys her friends liked. She wouldn't feel anything for the boy until someone said she liked him - then she would be all over him and trying to seduce him. If she achieved going out with him and losing her friend in the process, she'd dump him.
That said, I don't think it is wrong. It's stupid, but CA is free to go out with whomever she wants. ZK wasn't KM's property.
Since CA is so quick to find "new best friends" or "new love interests", however, I think her friendship is not worth much.
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Yep, she shouldn’t hold people to rules that she is unwilling to follow herself. Actually this is one of those universal reactions that I challenge you to start noticing. Whenever people make heated inflexible statements of this nature notice how the universe (God if you will) responds. That person is given the same situation to make a decision upon. Notice that the majority of the time the person will do the exact same thing that they complained someone else did. When confronted they usually say something like, well so and so did it or everyone does it anyway. As though that makes it acceptable. They are rationalizing their behavior. A little piece of advice, don’t say, I’ll never do(say) something. What will happen then is that a situation that you said you would never do(say) will come up and that which you said you would never do (say) will be the best solution to a problem that you are experiencing. You won’t like it but you will have to choose it. Oh, how I dislike this one. But, your friend was not in this last situation.
Good Luck!
LULABELLE
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Dear Is it right?,
NO it is not right. CA made a pact with her best friend, and she burned CA. Then CA goes and burns KM. CA should have asked KM if it was ok with her if CA went out with ZK. After all CA cannot help it if ZK likes CA instead of KM. Personally, I think that if CA was a real friend, CA would never do anything to jeopardize this friendship. But I am not CA, and CA will do what ever CA wants to. CA should keep in mind how it felt when CB burned CA with BG. That's how KM is feeling right now.
Above all CA should be honest with everyone.
Sincerely,
Honestymatters
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