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Hey, well im gonna go to a 'party' on friday well i wouldnt call it a party cause my friend is haveing me and 2 other girls spend the night and her brother is haveing 4 freshman spending the night to.... me and my friends are 13 and 14 and him and his friends are 14 and 15...Well two of my friends already have 'dibs' on two of the guys..... so ive never met any of theses guys soo i dont know witch one ill 'click' with.... but like my friends are telling me ill like this one kid because we are both alike.... but thier telling me that he is 'sexually active' so like i dotn want to get like to close to him cause i have to sleep there.... so should i even go to the party and have fun but possibly do something i might regret or should i stay home and miss a great party and just being pariniod(sp)over nothing
thanks soo much!!!
p.s. im 13 and the guy their telling me i like is 15
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You should go to the party. Just because the boy is sexually active doesnt mean you have to be. It will be fun, use can click and just have fun. If he wants to get closer and you feel uncomfortable just go to your friends and hang with them, im sure they wont mind. If he still trys to get close just tell him to stop and ask your friends brother to tell him to stop
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I would go but if they guys starts to get all touchy feely then I would tell him to back off. Make sure you say it firmly so he knows you mean it. For an excuse you can say that "is doesnt feel comfortable" and let it be. If he is a really nice boy then he will understand. Also, I wouldnt sleep near him....for your safety.
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He's 15. How goddamn sexually active can he be?
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First of all, just because there are going to be guys there -sexually active or not- doesn't mean YOU should miss out on a good party! Go, and if you don't feel comfortable don't stay. And remember, no IS answer. If you don't want to do something, don't. It's that simple.
♥ Melissa
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I don't think that you have anything to worry about. Seriously, the 15 year old guy can't be THAT sexually active... he's only 15, you're only 13, I doubt he's even been laid more than 3 times. How do you even know that these rumors are true? If your friends say that he's a nice guy, and that you two are similar, then I think that you should just go to your party and have a great time with him and the rest of the guys. If he tries to rape you or does anything that makes you uncomfortable, bring an air horn or a can of mace... just in case.
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This just sounds like trouble to me. I don't think that you should go. You will get pressured into doing something that you don't want to. There will be other parties and other opportunities for fun. From what you've told me, I don't think you would be very safe if you went to this party. I'm not saying that something would happen, but that type of atmosphere is just asking for it. Even though it's a big put down to not go, it'll likely be a bigger one if you do go because you'll either be, like you said, doing something that you'll regret, or spending the whole time refusing to do things and not participating or enjoying yourself at all. I know it's really hard to do, but sometimes you've just got to turn them down.
Good luck!
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I would say stay home. I can guarentee you that as soon as the guy finds out that you have an interest in him, he's gonna be pushing you to go as far as you can go. You're both there all night, and it's evenly paired, he's expecting something. I don't want to make you feel young or anything (I'm only 16), but if you did go and you did something you wouldn't normally do, you'd be regretting it for a long time. My advice is not to go. That's just a recipe for disaster.
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