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sex...oh boy!!
ok...i have a problem i guess this involves school and friendship and relationship problems...but here it goes...last year i had this boyfriend that i loved to death but i felt like he was using me for sex and i always did what he wanted...well little did i know my bestfriend was going back to school telling other people what we did on the weekends and i was homeschooled for the first time last year and i went back to public school this year and a guy in that class was one that she told everything to and he thinks im easy and he tells all his friends that...well now i found out my ex boyfriend went back to school last year and told everybody what we did and everything and now all the guys think im easy but thats not true and alot of guys are wanting to go out with me but i feel like its because of that...what would you do? what should i do?
15/female
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you should either prove them wrong by dating a couple guyz and don't even kiss them to make people think that it is jus a rumer. or leave the school
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Well just don`t go with them guys that should show all those assholes that you aren`t easy.. if this gets to hard on you and keeps you from keeping your graades up maybe going back to home schooling would be best or switching schools hun.. don`t let this ruin this year of school.. also that girl you call isn`t your best friend.. just try to ignore them the best you can and live your life.. have standards in what you want in a guy and keep em don`t rush and jump into relationships.. ♥ Dez
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You know the truth, so don't let stupid guys bother you. Just make sure you don't do things to make you look easy. If they want to think that, let them. If they have nothing better to do than talk about is YOUR sex then they aren't getting any are they? [Lol feel free to say that to THEM. (; ] But really, don't worry about it. They aren't worth your time. And you can still date, just make sure they like you for the right reasons.
♥ Melissa
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You should wear a chastity belt.
There is this thing called a dictionary, look it up.
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If they all think that you're easy, do something to prove them wrong! If you don't think that any of the guys asking you out really like you for who you are, then don't even bother with them. They can't keep calling you "easy" if you don't go out with anyone or do anything with any guys. If you ever do decide to get a bf anytime soon, don't do anything that would spread more rumors.
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You need to stick up for yourself. Make a scene. Be really loud and really animated. You need to let these people know that you're not easy and you're not a slut because you definitely aren't. Get mad about it. Let them know how you feel. Tell them that they're being jerks and that of course you did things with your bf. Wouldn't they have done things with their gf's? My guess is that they're just picking on you and they don't really believe these things. Doing this will either make them stop or turn it into a kind of joke instead of something serious. After you get all mad laugh at yourself and apologize. Tell them you got carried away because you were frustrated that everyone thought that you're something you aren't. As for all the guys wanting to be with you...think of it as a great opportunity. So many girls would kill to be in your position. If you like one of them you should go out with him. Be careful though and don't let him make you do anything that you don't want to. I hope that everything goes okay for you and that your reputation gets corrected. Good luck!
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This is why i tell young girls NOT to have sex. You have to handle too much stress that goes along with it. Guys are very immature at this age.(high school period)
There is no way to make people think that youre not easy. Guys can be real jerks at girls' expense.
They think sex is a big joke. They dont care about hurting the girl!
Dont go out with any guys for awhile at least. Let things calm down. Get to know a guy as much as you can. Find out their reputation with girls from any1 you can! Dont go out with just any guy!
Good Luck Hun!!
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well i have had a friend do that to me and i am only 14 yr old an a female just go up to them and tell them how you really feel and what really went on other then that just forget about them!
amllittlekitkit!
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