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parties
long story short:
I went to a party met a really cool guy there and now we're pretty deep
it's been like a year now and he asked me if we could *blush* you know what.
I'm sooooooooooo not ready beCAWZ we are both erm, young totally not the time until we've got our lives together.
So anyway I heard a rumor about how he's been creeping around with other chicks going into hotels then the next thing i know my girl calls me up spitting bs because she saw him with this girl in his backseat ((sooooo not cool))
I asked him and he said no.
here is my question:
My girl never lies to me we're blood ((blood sisters but not like that))
but she could be jealous but so many people have said it and said it was like a different girl every night. I really dont want things to end but they just might
WHAT DO I DO?!!-signed.
WULA!
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if your friend is known to always tell the truth .. believe her over him. if you're not letting him have sex with you [good decision considering you know you're not ready] maybe he thinks that he can get what he wants from other girls. then come back to youu and act as if nothing ever happened. if you hear things from plenty of other people .. then i might start to believe the plenty of people over him. but the thingg is .. maybe he really is telling the truth. all you can do is keep an eye outt. don't jump to conclusions.
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Be careful. I think you made a good desicion not having sex but you should be wary around this boy, he seems a little suspiciuos. I would ask you girl what exactly she saw.
xOx-pam
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If I were you, I'd be wary around him. Don't trust him just yet. From the information you provided, he seems like a womanizer who is only interested in sex.
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If asking him straight up hasn't gotten you a decent answer then THERE IS A PROBLEM.
Your guy should be able to put your doubts to rest. Being in an honest and secure relationship should be a top priority for him as well as you. If he can't even talk about the rumors without getting defensive or childish or just flat denying em, then it doesn't matter what the truth is, it wont last with him.
Besides that, the truth, as I believe you have already decided, is that he is playing you. If you can live with that, fine. But if you can't then things have to end.
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Well for one, do not have sex with the dude! I'd believe my girl anyday. And plus numerous people have said it? I can see why one person would make that up, but lots of people? Nuh uh, ditch this playa! Lol. Hope I helped! :)
<3 ECE*
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You shouldn't be having sex or doing anything like that other than kissing unless you are very committed to the other person. It always causes complications and there are so many risks involved anyways. This guy is especially risky because it seems like he's been with lots of girls. Of course he would say that he wasn't sleeping with anyone else, he still wants to do it with you! You should definitely believe your friend. There's no reason for you to have sex or anything like that just because someone asks you. You have to be ready for it and you should be doing it with someone that is strongly committed to you. Think of it this way...if he hadn't asked you to do anything with him, would you have asked him? If the answer is no then whatever you do don't do it! You should definitely give up on this guy. He's not worth the heartache you will undoubtably face if you start any kind of relationship or do anything sexual with him. There are tons of other guys out there that are way better than him. I'm sure you'll find one! Good luck!
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It sounds like he's the one who is lying rather than your blood sister. I don't think you should 'blush' you know what with him. You should end things if it turns out that the rumors are true. It might be 'heartbreaking' but it's probably for the best.
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Ok you got played by this dude. I don't think your friend is lying. Other people have said hes a loser. So don't "blush" fuck him and move on.
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