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i get really shy around guys. what can i do??
its probably because i went to a girls school. i'm 17/f.
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since you went to an all girls school you aren't used to being around alot of guys.
you could just open up a bit more to some of the people around you. you should get out there and mix and mingle. before you know it you'll have all the guys chasing after you.
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Yeah that'll do it. Just try to get to know a few guys personally and hang out with them.
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Probably being around mostly only girls throughtout highschool would make you shy around guys, but thats ok! Boys are just as shy around most girls as you are! When you're around guys dont act any differently to what you would when youre with ya girl mates, guys love a real girl. Try just making friends with a few guys coz then theres no pressure for you to impress them. Its a start!
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Good luck
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♥ taryn xo
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Hey babe. It's totally normal to be shy around guys (if that's the gender you prefer). Just remember that everybody gets a little insecure at times, including boys. So if you're a little nervous, maybe the guy is too. Overcoming shyness is really difficult, but just know that you're never the only one around you that's feeling a bit jittery. Like Eva said, just be yourself. I'm sure you're an awesome girl, so don't put too much pressure on yourself. You'll impress plenty of guys just by letting your amazing personality shine through. Good luck darling.
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I think that you should try to just make yourself talk to them.
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Your at an age when you are definately looking at guys, so of course you feel that they are looking at you. I think that you have just become very self conscious, and it doesnt help that since going to a girls school you might not have had any experience socializing with boys. Yes boys and girls are different but when it comes to how they feel about meeting someone of the opposite sex, we are all the same. We get a little nervous and self conscious. Try not to let it get in the way of who you really are. Just be yourself.
Eva J
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