omg this is tottally bugging me! theres this one guy in my grade and i think he might like me but i have nooooo clue!!! how can you tell if a guy likes you??? thanks and ill rate lol
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soccergurlie1220 answered Monday September 5 2005, 10:31 am: Well the way i see if i talk to his friends i know guys don't share everything like girls do but see if his friend could find out for ya. HOPE I HELPED!
dhrutts answered Monday September 5 2005, 3:58 am: Hi there,
The only way your going to know is if you ask him Yourself. Theres not much you can do. Most guys tend to act funny when talking about another girl. What you need to do is call him or talk to him, and ask him, does he like you?-And what not.
so trust me, there will be plenty of other boys. But you need to do it. I know it might seem werid but if hes into you, then there wont be much of a problem.
NEVER EVER get your friends to sort out your love life, it always goes wrong and they always make a mess of it!
Guys hate it when girls friends call them up and ask them questions, it's definitely the wrong way to go about things. You need to call him up yourself to sort something like this out.
If you want this guy to notice you, maybe you should try talking to him. If you want him to notice you and to get to know you, you're probably going to have to make the move yourself. Try a simple "hello" and a wave when you see him in the hall. Maybe a small chat, ask him what he did on his weekend.
I think the best thing to do is give it time. Give him a month more, and if he continues this behavior then confront him about it. Ask him if he really means it when he flirts with you. By giving it time, you're both allowing yourselves time to figure out exactly what you're both feeling. It's important to avoid rushing into a relationship buecause if you do rush you may hurt each other unintentionally.
I think that there is a good chance that he could have feelings for you. If you really want to know if you two could make the relationship work then you should really just sit down with him and talk to him about it. Express how you feel and ask questions. Just be open and honest with him but also stay calm. You don't want to say anything that you may regret later. Also only listen to what he tells you himself. People tend to either accidently or purposly change people's words around so it's best to only believe what he tells you himself.
I think he does like you. I think that you probably will start going out.
If you think its right then do it but don't walk away, might make him feel like it's a joke, expect an answer. And dont worry mom's are usually very open about this stuff. And from personal experiences, relationships or asking someone out doesn't affect a friendship as much as you think. Anyways, just go for it, there is really no harm in trying, nothing to loose but so much to gain! :)
You could write to him, sms, or email make sure to tell him not to show it to ANYONE. Because if he shows it to someone, he and you both might be made fun of because that's just the way people are today. Be sure to let him know that you'd like a response to the letter, whether it's face to face or in another letter. Just try to make him understand that even if he doesn't like you the same way that there will be no hard feelings. Cause he might feel weird since you are his best friend. I hope things work out for you.
I think that if that is the plan that you want to do...that is exactly what you should do. I think that it lets him know that you like him, but gives him a little time to think about what happened. I think that things will go great and you will feel a lot better after you give him the letter. I really hope the things go well.
Erinlvsyou answered Monday September 5 2005, 2:07 am: well i have the same prob. i didnt kno wat to do at first either! just watch for sign:staring,flirting stuff like that and another way is to ask a good friend of his to ask him for u! hope i helped!
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