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ok i DO have friends, but i cant make them easily! whenever im in a new situation im always just sitting in the corner by myself, lonely, etc! and that sucks! acuse then it makes the experience NO FUN!! and im like the loudest person ever when you get to know me. how can i over come this? i feel weird if i just go up and say "HI IM ____" (but if worst comes to worst, i do it but im like shaking!!!) so yeah, how can i get rid of this shyness?!
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ALOT of ppl are like that. its nothing to worry about you can just bring a friend that you already have with you and ask him/her to intorduce you to some new people. and dont be scared to talk to them. they wont bite!! there most likley just as nervous about meeting someone new as you are. hope i helped XoXo
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To make friends. Try acting like a friend. I think you should go up to someone and say "Hey my name is ______. Would you like to be my friend?" And if they turn you down, well that's their loss. Come on, how do you meet a friend? Think! YTou should confront to someone sometime sooner or later! lol Hope my advice helps! Stay cool. Goodluck!
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D0nt worry. thats exactly how i am; but im getting over it. tell your friends to introduce you to people! Have them introduce you to outgoing people so they can start the conversation and stuff. after awhile you'll get the hang of it and you'll get used to it! the more you socialize and take risks the easier it will get. before you know it you'll be a social butterfly! good luck. &hearts much luhvv, Lauren
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I know meeting new people can be hard. Especially when you have trouble already with making new aquatinces. One thing you can do is if you are at a party, don't be shy! Go up and introduce yourself to someone, and share what you like to do in your spare time. Say, " Do you like to fly kites?" Me too! Suggest you join a kite club together. Play sports.One way to get rid of your shyness is to get involved with other people. Interact. Don't live under a rock. I have a friend who is exactly like that, and has a lot of trouble meeting new people. She gets very shy and runs away. Meet new people in clubs, remeber social=detention= DETENTION FRIENDS!!! Good luck!
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umm....yew can qive s0me0ne a c0mpliment &&& then start talkinq t00 them...0r have s0me 0f y0ur friendsz introduce yew t0 their friendsz...h0pe thiisz helpsz =)
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You probably wont but if you do it over and over again you will get the hang of it!!
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The best thing to do is go up to people that seem nice and start talking... before you do this...
-practice, like in front of a mirror.
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-take a couple deep breaths.
~just remember everyone gets nervous when they're first meeting someone... it's human nature. You shouldn't always expect people to come up to you and start talking because they're just as nercous as you.
-I hope this helps
~i hope it works out for the best~
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