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this is really stupid.. but i met this guy online and i started to like him ALOT. well anyway i met up with him yesterday he is the sweetest/cutest guy EVER. I mean we had such a GREAT time! Well anyway he asked me if I wanted to go out another time.. and I said yes.. but see he's never done ANYTHING with a girl except for hug.. and yesterday we didnt do anything! If we go out again will he have the nerve to hold my hand?? and if he doesnt do i just grab his HELP ME PLEASE!
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It's great you met somebody. Sounds like the guy is shy. Try giving him some time to get used to you. Holding hands is okay but if the guy is unsure, just ask him!!! Can't hurt. Chances are he wants to but is too shy to actually do it. Just help the poor guy along and it'll work out!!!
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You see, that's just a matter of how fast he wants a relationship to go. He's like me - I'm 14 going on 15 and just had my first kiss a few months ago. Now I have a different, much greater girlfriend, who I love much more. But with this relationship, I wanna do things right. Which, to me, means taking a little bit of time. He probably wants to make sure he has the right girl before he does anything. He wants everything he does with a girl to be truly wonderful. And he probably just wants to make sure that you're the girl he wants to be with. Don't force him to just jump right into everything, even if it's just holding hands. Hang out with him and be a friend. If ya'll end up going out, then still try to take your time with him and be patient. Don't try to force him forward b/c it could make him uncomfortable. Hope I Helped and Good Luck.
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well if you want more then a hug make some moves on him n let him know you want more than that
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yeah, you should definently just grab his hand. You need to be the girl that he has his first kiss with. Show him a good time. It may feel weird being the more experienced one, but he'll learn lol. have fun with it.
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I think its okay for you to just grab his hand and hold it. Don't rush things to much other than that. Once you get to know each other better he will loosen up. Really, its nice to know there are still a few gentlemen to be had out there! :)
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Well not all that stupid. I have been in the exact same situation. I can say I am like the guy who you met online and you are my ex girlfriend. A friend introduced us via the internet and we hooked up this past new years eve. Well I hadnt done anything more with a girl cept for a hug, and she knew that ahead of time (and she sounds just like you). She was really looking forward to meeting me and thought I was the sweetest and coolest guy she had ever met so she made the first move on me. We were at a party at her friends house and we were walking alot around the town I live in (her friend lives right down the street from me) and on the way back she started holding my hand and then she kinda spaced herself and me from everyone else we were with and then she flat out kissed me in the middle of the street. Ok from the little story I just told, start out slow. Hold his hand first, and then maybe follow the story I told, or take it at whatever pace you want. Or just do what you think is best. Hope maybe the advice and story I gave helped and good luck with him, hope it works out for you.
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Okay it was kind of a bad idea to go out with a guy online..but it's good that you got to meet a guy you like. Anyway, when you two are walking together, just hold on to his hand. He'll like that he won't have to make the first move, and you'll be able to make him more comfy around you. After you've known him for awhile, and he seems like he's comfortable, THEN think about kissing him.
Hope I helped,
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It sounds like he's shy. But it also sounds like he likes you. I don't think he'll die, or run away, if you grab his hand.
In fact, he'd probably like that a lot.
But take it slowly; I wouldn't kiss him right away or anything. You don't want to scare him off, after all. :D
Actually, this might sound like a crazy idea, but why don't you try talking to him? You could say "Would you hold my hand?", for example.
Good luck. :D
PS - I forgot to say: It's true that you can meet some creepy people online. So yes, it's wise to be cautious.
But you can also meet some pretty amazing people. That's how I met my wife, in fact. And we have a wonderful little boy now, so that's proof that great things can come from online relationship! :D
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