Ok, there is this guy that I like. My friend found out that he liked me too. He was mad about me knowing I liked him. I told him it wasn't a big deal because I like him too. So now we both know about our 'secret' crushes. It's just weird because he was acting different. I don't want to ask him out right now though because I'm going on vacation Sun. and I won't get to talk to him. So don't tell me to just ask him out. Does anyone know why he's acting different? Or what to do in a situation like this?
Thanks!
p.s. I'm 13/f.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Irishdude405 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 7:10 pm: i said this in one of my other advice tips. Boys tend to get awkward around situations that he cannot control. Like now if he flirts with you it is because now he knows that you know he likes you and it is putting him in an uncomfortable position. and people will be like OoOoOo you like her!!! and its something that boys like to avoid. Boys also tend to want what they cant have untill they can get it. Boys are weird that way . I'm a boy so Yes we are weird a lot!:) but a lot of boys will stay away from a girl because he is shy and he doesnt know what to say but hang in there!
deathwillcome answered Thursday July 7 2005, 6:48 pm: Now that he knows that you have a crush on him, he is probably acting diferent because he wanted to impress you. Now all you have to do is make sure that you don't turn him off. Don't get to close, let him do it in his own time. That will make him feel more comfertable. Talk to some of his close friends about what he is saying, just try not to make him run away. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. Please rate. [ deathwillcome's advice column | Ask deathwillcome A Question ]
LoLo2454 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 4:58 pm: He's probably just acting weird because now his secret is out and it might be a little embarrassing for him, even though the feelings are mutual. Before you leave, remind him you like him in some way, and tell him you want to see a movie, or grab a bite to eat with him when he gets back. That way it will remind him that you care and he doesnt have to worry about anything. Plus, over your vaca, maybe he will stop acting all weird and when you return he will be the same again. Im sure it will be fine.
kashia answered Thursday July 7 2005, 4:32 pm: this guy is probally acting different and doesnt even know it. but dont rush and ask him out, take some time to get to know and trust him.....
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mr.niceguy answered Thursday July 7 2005, 4:21 pm: the other people who gave you advice were acting sexist and hes not just acting like that cause hes a guy hes acting like that caues hes mad and this is coming from a guy and then just wait for him to calm down then ask him out [ mr.niceguy's advice column | Ask mr.niceguy A Question ]
twistedsister17 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 4:17 pm: Hes acting like this because hes a boy. lol Well hes just nervous, yes, even boys get nervous. Hes probably worrying about the exact same thing you are- if he should ask you out or not. I would wait a little while to see what happens, then if nothing happens, make a move! :) Good Luck! <333 [ twistedsister17's advice column | Ask twistedsister17 A Question ]
ronda answered Thursday July 7 2005, 4:14 pm: Most boys act that way when they have finaly told there crush that they like them.It is kinda a good and a bad idea to ask him before and after your vactin.IT bad before your vaction because he might cheat on you(hopefully not)And it dependson where your going over the summer because of the way you are going to keep in toch.And it is bad to ask him after your vaction because he might find a new girl.But go with the one that you think is most likly NOT to happen.Have a nice vaction.
marti answered Thursday July 7 2005, 4:09 pm: well first of all hes acting different b/c he like you a lot and he wants to try to be the guy you want hes tryin to impress you and wouldnt you want to be asked out before you went on vacation? it would make you feel better tell him you want to go out with him but probably after he gets back b/c then you can talk more [ marti's advice column | Ask marti A Question ]
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