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best friends ; lovers?
14/f -- my friends in I call ourselfs "the crew". Mainly, it's me & my boyfriend, his best friend & his girlfriend [my best friend], and occasionally a few others. We all have open relationships were we tell each other everything. Except we don't tell our b/f&g/fs everything so we kinda share secrets and give advice and such. The other day my bf's best friend [he just happens to be my ex] told me that he still has feelings for me and thinks about me more than his girl. now, he keeps talking to me about this and trying to get me to cheat on my boyfriend with him.. i'm not gonna, but what should i say to him to make him back off??
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I'd just be like," Okay... I know you still have feeling for me and stuff.. but I'm sorry, I don't. I've moved on...and it's with your best friend! And you're dating mine..so even if there was a chance, it wouldn't happen, cause I could never do that! So I'm sorry.. can we just forget this ever happened, and just remains friends?" And if he doesn't continue to back off, I might wanna tell your boyfriend about it... so he knows what his "Best friend" is doing, and then you might wanna let your best friend know too, I think she deserves too. Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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if you already have someone who you love dearly, then just tell him straight forward, no i`m sorry, i`m already with someone, something like that. Just let him know that your not interested, at any matter, in him.. he should back off by then, but if he`s one of those pesky bugs, then you gotta sqwish him! seriously, if he wont back off by then, you gotta take matters into your own hands.. i wonder why in the first place, he doesn`t understand *moving on*.. geee!! guys!!? go figure =]
hope i helped!
xo0x- Kata
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tell him that its not happening and your very happy with your bf..yell at him about how he can be doing this to his best friend! tell him to back off and consider breaking up with your friend if he doesnt like her (because lets face it...is it fair for him to still be with her when he doesnt like her?)
think about if your best friend was trying to get your bf to cheat on you with her..wouldnt you want to know? so i would thnk about telling your bf and your best friend...this guy def needs to be confronted because what kind of friend would do this to his best friend?
well i hope i helped nd i hope this situation gets cleared up
-melissa-
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Cheating is always... ALWAYS out of the question, and I'm sure you know that already. Honestly, the best way is the straitforward way in this sort of situation, he seems persistant, so anything less would resuly in him pestering you more.
Hope I helpped
~Kitsune Tokkan
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tell him that even though ull went out that you dont have the same feelings for him as he has for you tell him that you just wanna be friends and that the boyfriend that you have now you truley like or love well i hope i helped
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plain and simple
KICK HIM IN THE BALLS.
since you gave me a 5 and i like you attitude i will give you real advice. you can do 5 things before the above action. they are :
1) talk to him comly
2) firmly tell him off
3) public humiliation (just ask me, i am the master)
4) make out with your bf in his presence
5) tell you dont like him, and to lay off or your going to go to someone for sexual harassment.
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I know this is going to be what probly everyone else will tell you but.. tell him something like "I know we hadd something at some point but I am with (bfs name) now and I really really love / like (w.e is the trueth) him.. and I dont think I will break up with him any time soon..
sorry i dont have any better advice..
good luck
love maddie
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tell him that your not interested and that if he keeps it up your gonna tell your boyfriend about it and hes not going to be happy. thats it. its that simple.
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Tell him that it's over and that he needs to move on and that you allready have unless you like him than you should break up with your current bf just dont cheat on anyone and you'll be fine
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Tell him you aren't interested and tell him it forcefully. What he is doing is very mean and shallow and he's an absolute jerk to ruin your tight knit group like that.
Tell him to hit the road, and if he doesn't, tell your friend and your boyfriend.
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