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a few days ago my best friend(a girl)asked if i wanted to go to the movies.i said sure and i decided to invite my boyfriend to come along too.he has done things with us before but never said what he said to me.he told me he didnt want to go because he didnt like my friend and he never has he was just too afraid to tell me.now i am really upset because my best friend is upset. we cant do things together nemore. i am really close to both of them and now i cant even talk about them near each other because i know they dnt like it even if they dont say nething.what should i do?
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remember this most important lesson::::Buds before studs.Friends always come first.so even if your bf doesnt like your friend make sure you still spend time with your friend no matter what your bf says.
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christine
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Did you acutally tell your best friend that your boyfriend didn't like her? Because that was kind of an ass hole thing to do.
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Just because your bf doesn't like you're friend that doesn't mean you still can't hang out with her. I would reccomend seeing them on alternate weekends or days. Your bf should be understanding of your feelings that this is your best friend and he shouldn't say that to you. He should just suck it up that you love your best friend and deal with it.
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hm. your in a really tough situation. you should sit both of them down and talk to them! you can't make them like each other, but if your friend wants to be you best friend then she'll have to at least act like she likes him. and if your boyfriend doesn't like your friend then yall won't be hangin out togther. make him and her at least talk about this. ask them both what they hate about each other. maybe whatever it is they don't like, that person wont do or say it in front of the other. i kno it seems like im saying they both need to change a lil bit but im not! im just sayin to keep them both happy they need to act different or whatever. i hope i helped!
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how did your best friend find out? did you tell her because if you did then you've had to known that she would get upset.i think it might be for the best anyway at least your boyfriend thought you could handle the truth and told you and now you can have one on one girl time with your best friend, besides im sure she must've gotten tired of you two being together and just her, like a third wheel or annoyed that your not paying as much attention to her as you used to
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