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hey yall whats up I know this sound retarded but how do I change the back ground of myspace I cant find it any where plz help I'll rate good if you try to help
ME

go to createblog.com or nuclearcentury.com or whateverlife.com

pick a layout then paste the codes into your ABOUT ME SECTION.

hope i helped.

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OK I really like this Kid... He is a cutie and I want to start hanging out with him more and stuff... like do I just wait until he askes me or what? he as been calling me and stuff but whenever he wants to hang out my parents are being gay? so what? well thanks

talk to him. like about you & him. tell him your parents are being retarded and his timing isnt quite right. just find a day that is best for you & him to hang out. go to a movie or something. you can't wait for him to do the asking. unless hes really into you. but if you wait he might find someone new & move on .. or he might be thinking that you were goin to ask him. dont wait. cos the moment might just pass you by.

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well, heres the thing, all of my friends have babysitting jobs, but i dont. i really want one, but i m too shy to ask ppl. i have tryed putting signs in the door, but that didnt work. i m a shy person. does anyone have any ideas for what i should do/say to get a job!?

ive been babysittin alot lately. i never volunteer myself to do it tho. my mom or dad always does. my mom directs at a daycare and thats how i get most of them. just ask your parents if they kno anyone you can babysit. thats all the advice i have,, hope it works.?!?

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I haven't ever really played any sports but this year i am ready to try because i am finally in shape (i've ALWAYS been a big kid). I want to play softball but I have anxieities that i will let the team down because i've never played before. Is there anyone who waited till High Skool to pick up a sport and did okay?
Thank YOu
Worried. :(

i've played softball all my life. since i was like 4 or 5 . Softball isnt a sport that you can learn in a week or so. you really have to kno what your doin. you can try out for your high school team and see what happens. but i wont guaruntee that you would make it because well, youve never played it before. theres more to softball than just catching and throwing an oversized baseball. you have to kno where to throw the ball, when a runners on 1st or whatever.. lol im kinda gettin off the subject but yeah. i wouldnt recommend tryin out but if you really really REALLY want to then its up to you. who knos you could be a natural!!?? lol well i hope i helped .. by the way do not worry about lettin down your team. YOU CANT DO THAT because if you lose, then the WHOLE team lost it for yall. not just one or two persons . just wanted to let you kno there is no "i" in team so dont worry about that okay?

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Okay, a couple years ago i had this best friend...we were unseperable, not a moment was spent without eachother, but then one day ..her parents said they had to move, and she moved away to BRAZIL..A WHOLE NOTHER CONTINENT!!! it just crushed me so bad, i miss her so much, and since then, ive been having friendship problems...i have this one best friend..but the thing is she has 4 other best friends!!! so its hard for me because shes like my only good friend..and whenever we fight, and im left feeling like i have no friends, i think of my best friend that moved and a bawl out crying for hours. I just dont know what to do, because i miis her so much- but i have a feeling shes never coming back. and the thing that crushes me the most is she was supposed to come back to visit me for her 15th bday, but instead she had a party in Brazil...and now my current best friend ( that has 4 other bestfriends) is meeting a bunch of new friends and she hangs out with them all the time..i just dont feeli like her best friend, i just feel like abother best friend on her list...i know theres not much to say as advice, but do you happen to have any??? Thanks for reading this.

its okay to have more then one best friend. life would be too boring if you only had one. i don't have much advice for this subject but talk to her tell her you want to hang out with her more or whatever. all you have to do is communicate and it will all work out. trust me. and your friend who moved to brazil probably didnt come back and visit you because she had other plans. (which she did) let her move on with her life and you should move on with yours as well. its okay to miss her, but if she has something other to do, then don't get mad at her for that. respect her. she will come and visit you when the time is right, and maybe on her 15th b-day the time wasnt right? are you understandin what im tryin to say here? like i said im not good with that subject but i gave it my best shot. and your welcome for readin it! answer all of my questions with my BEST effort. hope i helped ya !

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I was going out with this kid named Brian for about almost 5 months. Things jus wern't working out, so we jus decided to be friends. When ever I see him, it's so akward. I'm still in love with him! I miss him soooo much, and want to be with him again. I cry all the time from missing him. A couple days ago, I talked to his best friend, and told him everything that was on my mind. Come to find out, Brian was over there, reading this whole convo! But the bad part was, he didn't say anything back. What should I do? Talk to him about everything? Or should I just move on? I need advice! Please and thanks!!

Btw .. nice site!

i think you should talk to Briam about it. talking to his best friend can sometimes work. but other times it just backfires. tell him whats on your mind and how you feel. who knos he may feel the same about you, and he just didnt want to tell you in front of his best friend. gusy are like that sometimes. but if he doesnt feel the same about you, you totally have to respect that and move on. i kno, i kno itz tuff trust me ive been thru it before. but you have to move on and keep you head held high. and if you still show you have feelings for Brian, you might not get another bf bc they wouldnt want to be the rebound or whatever. hope my advice helps you!

oh yea. thanks for sayin my site is nice. YOU ROCK whoever you are lmao

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Hey. ok well i have this friend from Washington(im from ny) and he is 18 and im 13... and he keeps on wanting to do stuff with me.. like he says hes gunna come up here and "spend the weekend at a hotel with me.. :-/" but the thing is i have a boyfriend.. and he knos it but he just cant get it thru his head. if i liek go away on aol he will say things liek Oh ill miss you so much.. but idk i dont wanna be mean to him cause hes soo cool. what should i do??

*btw youre rele pretty lol*

Hmm. your in a tough situation but what i would do if i were you, is i would tell him that you don't want him to visit you and that yalls relationship shouldnt go farther then on the computer. and don't give in to him, like if he tells you "oh ill miss you" then say " well. not my problem" or something like that. tell him that your not tryin to be mean. and everything. he may be cool and all. but ANYONE can pretend to be cool on a computer .. lol well i hope my advice helps you!

by the way THANKS for sayin im really pretty! thats so sweet!

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a few days ago my best friend(a girl)asked if i wanted to go to the movies.i said sure and i decided to invite my boyfriend to come along too.he has done things with us before but never said what he said to me.he told me he didnt want to go because he didnt like my friend and he never has he was just too afraid to tell me.now i am really upset because my best friend is upset. we cant do things together nemore. i am really close to both of them and now i cant even talk about them near each other because i know they dnt like it even if they dont say nething.what should i do?

hm. your in a really tough situation. you should sit both of them down and talk to them! you can't make them like each other, but if your friend wants to be you best friend then she'll have to at least act like she likes him. and if your boyfriend doesn't like your friend then yall won't be hangin out togther. make him and her at least talk about this. ask them both what they hate about each other. maybe whatever it is they don't like, that person wont do or say it in front of the other. i kno it seems like im saying they both need to change a lil bit but im not! im just sayin to keep them both happy they need to act different or whatever. i hope i helped!

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I don't hav any friends! my so called friends don't tell me any secrets or call me etc. The friends I used to have aren't my friends. What am I supposed to do. This really stinks! I even try to make new friends but their not my type. Is this just my point of view, they don't call because they don't have time or something. Please Help! I rate high enough

hmm. well. i think you should ask your ex-friends what you did wrong and try to fix it. if that doesnt work, then you could try to make new ones & it doesnt matter if yall are totally different. nobodys exactly the same in my book. so just be friends with another group and you dont have to change who you are just to fit in. trust me they will like you for who you are. if not then poo on them! lol

hope i helped
sumer dawn

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i dont kno what the heck to do!! my family is like slowly not talkin much.. what should i do to prevent this?? signed *ughh*

um.. you should plan a family day or whatever.. tell your family not to plan anything on a certain day.. then take it upon urself to like make them talk and stuff .. hope you have good luck!!

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omg i so dont kno what to do .. can you help me..? i need help my friends are acting all weird and thay are annoying me all the freaking time.. should i ust ignore them and move on or what? please and thank you!

ask them what the dill is.. and if thay say something retarted then just say whatever and move on.. maybe sometime in the near future thay will come around! =)

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