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I got a call from my ex-boyfriend last week and he wanted me to meet up with him at a local coffee shop. I told my boyfriend about it and he told me to go. So, I went and met him. When I got there he had a dozen roses waiting for me and as I sat down he got on his knee and told me that he loves me still and never stoped loving me. I told him that I had a boyfriend and all. I don't know what to do. My boyfriend has been acting like he doesn't know me, because my ex called and asked for my answer and asked me to move in with him when my boyfriend was with me because I still haven't answered him and he's getting a new apartment. What should I do?
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well if you love you x then you shouild give it a try..then about your boyfriend ....well if hes acting weird then you shouild ask him whats up..but you no that you wouild be pretty pieced if you had your boyfrieds x to move in with her...so just try to put your self in shoes and try to feel what hes feeling???it aint all that great is it!!your boyfriend sounds like a good guy and i think you shouild stay with him..all you halft to do is tell your x that you ahve moved on and you like someone else..and you dont want to move in with him..b-cause your x shouild of left you alone the first time you told him that you have a boyfriend and that you moved on..and thats what he shouild do - move on with his life..well do whatb feels right for you!!!!
hope i helped...
love always,
ilovepink101
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do whats in your heart. be with the one you truley love and see you can have a future with.
*jodyfresh*
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Your ex boyfriend really sounds convincing. People will tell you never to dump a guy for someone else, but if your current boyfriend is being an ass, ditch him. Would your current boyfriend surprise you with roses? When you asked him if you could meet your ex at the coffee shop, he didn't really care, he said you could go. It sounds like he's not as crazy for you as your ex. Go with the guy who treats you better, or the one you feel more comfortable with. But it depends on why you and your ex broke up in the first place? Did he ever cheat on you? That's something to consider. But if your ex REALLY is madly in love with you...then WOW. Thats good news. Go with your heart! Good luck!
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Sounds like you have some heavy thinking to do.
Your going to have to decide which guy is best for you. Why did you and the ex break up? Has there been any major changes that make you feel it will work this time around? If not then no sense starting it all up again. The roses and all that were a nice touch but will they continue once he has your undivided attention?
Sounds like the guy you are dating now trusted you enough to let you meet with the ex. Give him a few points for that. I think all this may have blind sided the poor guy.
I guess you need to get out pencil and paper and do the old reasons it would be good and reasons it would be bad columns. Do it on both guys and then you will have something to work with. You are the one who will have to make this decision. Take some time to do some real soul searching and you will come up with the right answer. :)
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Hey,
You shouldn't have gone. I think tha was a trick of your boyfriend to see if youactually cared enough about him to realize that, that would be disrespectful for you to meet up with your ex-boyfriend. You'll probably rate low b/c im not givin you the answer that you want.But i dont think that yoi should of gone. But maybe you still like your ex. Do what you feel is best. if you have more feeling for ex than our former b/f juss do it. Just follow your heart. Hopei have helped and GOOD LUCK.
*Gorda*
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If you think you love 2 people at once then you don't love either enough. - Micaela Logan
I strongly believe in this quote. Only one guy deserves to be loved by you.
You can't love your boyfriend and love someone else at the same time. So decide now. Liking the other guy shows that you don't care about your boyfriend as much as you thought. So choose now. Don't put it off either, because the longer you wait, the more hurt your boyfriend will be. If you decide your boyfriend is not the one for you, just sit down with him, and gently talk to him about it. It'll hurt him more the longer you wait so just do it. Even if you think you LOVE your boyfriend but still have feelings for someong ELSE or even if you're not SURE if you love boyfriend, you need to break up with him. Because chances are, if you aren't sure you probably don't love him. And I'm sure the last thing you want to do is break your boyfriend's heart even more by leading him on.
Your ex-boyfriend must have been your ex for a REASON. Think back to why you broke up. Are you willing to let that go and pretend it never happened?
If you really think you love your boyfriend and you decide you don't want to break up with him, you need to spend more time with him. Get to know him even better and get that other guy COMPLETLY out of your head. That's the least you can do for him. And even then, if you decide you still don't LOVE your boyfriend, it's time to break up with him. Dating is about experiencing new things, trying things out, bonding with someone, and finding what you need and want. You don't have to be confined to one person forever, you are free to date people to find your soul mate.
And like I said, the minute you find out he's not the one you truely have strong feelings for, you need to break up with him and save him more heart ache. But if you do decide he is the one that gets ALL of your love, get the other guy out of your head and spend more time with your sweetie.
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Well there's a question you need to ask yourself, who do you love? If you love your boyfriend, stay with him, if you love your ex, well, then it's obvious.
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