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ok i have this friend and he is sort of like a pansy the flower...and a pansy in the other lanuage means something weird...well how to i tell him hes a pansy...and i dnt like gay homosexual friends because there always lookin at the gay men nxt to you rather then you. !!!please i need serious help with this one...
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Barbra a.k.a burt
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It seems to me like you're stereotyping. Not all gay guys are "always looking at the gay men next to you". They're people, they're human. Just like any other person of any sexual orientation. So don't exclude gay people from your list of friends.
Like someone else mentioned, why do you need to tell him he's a "pansy"? If he's gay, I'm sure he already knows it. And if he just *acts* gay, that's just the way he is and he doesn't need anyone to tell him.
Try to be open minded. If you absolutely can't accept the way he acts, then just leave it alone and keep your distance. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all.
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If you are interested in a sexual relationship with your friend, you might discuss his sexual preference with him. Otherwise, it shouldn't matter whether he's gay or not.
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How do you know he is gay? Or like you said, a pansy? And why do you have to tell him?
It seems to be that being gay or not gay is really up to him to be and know, not you. So all you can really decide is whether you want this guy as a friend or not if you think is *acts* like he is gay.
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