Okay, I have 3 best friends, Jenna, Kayla, and Mandy. Kayla's hair was straight but she got a perm and it seems like she thinks shes better then everyone else because she has straight hair and boys like her. She barely talks to me Jenna or Mandy anymore. Shes always hanging out with snobby people. What should I do?
MmSBaBe167 answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 8:43 am: shes a real snob if getting her hair done got the friendship in the toilet go to her and ask whats up if shes your friend she will explain that she was wrong if shes not there are a lot more people you can be friends with good luck
burningXstar answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 6:45 am: lol, remind me of a similar situation of my own! This girl obviously has lost her loyalties to you. It depends how much she means to you guys as a group. You can either talk to her and explain that you're upset with the way she's behaving, or just leave her to do her own thing! I used to have a good friend and she lost herself in popular people and we haven't spoken for nearly a year... At the time it was sad but my group of friends grew stronger and was better because of it! She just wasn't worth the arguement it was causing. But I wouldn't be mean to her, let her know you are a nice group of friends by talking to her nicely explaining you're upset about the way she's behaving. If she doesn't swing back into format then leave her be and stick with your other buddies! I'm sure you'll become closer then ever and Kayla will be left regretting she ever left such a great group of friends. But people live and learn from their mistakes, be the stronger ones here and let her run her course...
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baby_phat1990 answered Monday May 23 2005, 8:53 pm: Confront her! Tell her who her real friends were before she got her hair done. Cuz her hair won't always look like that. The perm will go away. aND SHE'S NOT ALWAYS GONNA have money to get her hair done. Hope I helped [ baby_phat1990's advice column | Ask baby_phat1990 A Question ]
skullgrlSFX answered Monday May 23 2005, 5:43 pm: If you really feel so strong about this probleme then try 2 tell her. if you are uncomfortable telling her this then try to stay away from her for a while. if she is you rreal friend she will understand what you feel.
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LiSaxOBaBii answered Monday May 23 2005, 5:36 pm: Try talking to her-she's probraly in over her head and thinks she has so much power now. If she's acting like a snob let her go...you still have Jenna and Mandy..so if this is how your `friend` is gunna act..she'll see that people arent gunna put up with it much longer..so I say if she doesnt change..forget about her..explain to her how she's acting stuck up and cocky and that she's too into herself.
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