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I'm in 8th grade and there is this 7th grader in my Strings class that has like an aide and he is soo annoying and weird. When we went to Busch Gardens for a competition he would only be in my group and he stared at me CONSTANTLY. He wouldn't leave me alone either. He would only go on rides i went on. The other day my friend asked him without consulting me if he liked me and he said yes. My other friend wants to ask him if he'd ever ask me out but i don't want to have to break his heart. Everyone i know wants to ask him for laughs but i don't know what i would say if he did, not that think he would. What should i do?
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That's really mean if he has an aide then that means that there's something wrong. First you should tell your friends to leave him alone. that is really mean to mess with him. If you see him during the day try to be nice to him but not so nice that he thinks that you like him. If you don't then just stay away from him and keep your friends away too. Don't mess with the poor kid. And if he does ask you out talk very calmly and nicely tell him that you don't like him like that. That you think he's a nice kid but you don't want to become involved in a relationship with him.
Good luck and I hope it all works out
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The only correct thing to do is don't break his heart, break his face.
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First of all, if you were in his shoes, you wouldn't want people laughing at you or asking you things that would make people laugh. If the subject arrises, let him know that you aren't interested in him in that way, but be nice about it and offer friendship. :)
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What do you want to do? If you really don't like him then tell your friends to butt out. It isn't real nice for them to tease the poor guy. If he asks you out then politely tell him no.
If you want to get to know him better then say yes you will go out with him and have a good time. :)
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Wow... that's kind of mean they're asking him just for laughs. Poor kid. Okay, well, I'd tell your friends to lay off... and maybe you should be upfront and ask this kid if he likes you. Then tell him that you're sorry but you don't feel that way... sometimes, breaking his heart is the only way to get across how you feel... Or you could ignore it. It doesn't sound like he's doing anything physical, just staring.
If he decides to ask you out, let him down gently (and truthfully)... it sounds like he's been through a lot. As long as your nice about it, there shouldn't be too much of a problem.
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