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ok sry for the length but i need help...
i have this ex-boyfriend that i like alot still i dont know why..we've broke up a million times but i can seem to get over him..we my friends are telling me we should go back out because they say hes changed and stuff but my problem is my best friend doesnt want me going back out with him..he said if i go back out with him then he'll never talk to me ever again...and i dont know what to do help plz
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so your best friends a boy so he probalby gets worried for you because you've been hurt so many times before. Or he could just b jelous as i dont know him youll have 2 see which one is more like him and talk to him bout it. tell him how you feel bout yr ex im sure he'll undertand Good Luck x
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one thing to say... if he is REALLY your best friend... he'll be there no matter what!
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If you love him and you are happy with him then your friends should be happy for you. Don't let them come between love. I am sort of in your situation. I have a bf and on June 5th we will have been going out for 8 months. The problem is that I have a guy who is one of my best friends. He lives in another state, its not too far from here. We went out before and even after we still had feelings for each other on and off. I still have feelings for him and it is driving me crazy because I have a boyfriend. But because I know I love my boyfriend, I could never leave him. No matter how much I think about the past. Go on with your life and figure out what really makes you happy. Find out who your real friends are. And always be honest of your true feelings. Good luck!
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All I have to say is that I have been in the same situation before. I couldn't eat or sleep without thinking about him. But then i realaized that I don't care if he hates me , I need to try to see if i can have him. So i asked him out... he said yes.. it never hurts to try..
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Hey, this is your love life. NOT your best friends. Yeah..sure it's okay if you get her input,but don't let her decide for you. If you can't get over him, then it seems apparent that you still really like him. Don't give up on him because of something your friend thinks is right. follow your heart <3. Go out w/ him :]
good luck and hope i helped!
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i hate it when friends try to get into your love life. well if youre best friend id really a best friend then he wont stop talking to you forever. chances are good that he likes you and might be jeolous.now to decide whether to give this guy a chance you need to be sure of why it didnt work before and make sure those problems are no more. adn it deosnt matter if your friends see a change in him. it only matters if you see the change. if both of you are willing to give it another go and i mean he understands its his last chance and that it cant be like last time then go for it. give it your all. your best friend should get over it. its not very mature to put yourself between your best friend and their boyfriend unless its for your good not your best friends. good luck.
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heyy .. frist ask your friend why he wont talk to you if ou go out with him and then try to solve that whole little problem with your friend if it is something that needs solving but if its something like your friend doesnt like the boy you wanna go out with then its so not your problem so just tell him to get over it your friend cant tell you who to go out with and you need to tell him that and if hes a good friend he will understand
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I bet he changed everytime you went out with him huh? I bet your friends arent the smartest people on the block either. Considering you and your ex dont get along. They need to realise that its over, so do you.
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wel if your best mate going to be like that is he really a best mate would he really be acting like that, maybe he likes u ;)
if you have been out with him loadsa times before ask yourself why did u ever spit up the other times if it's like stupid things maybe give him one more chance but if its loadsa things or a really big thing is he really worth it?? xXx good luck hun! xXx
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Aw! First of all.. tell your best friend that if he is going to be mad at you that he isnt being a really good best friend. This is your love life or w/e and you can go out with that guy since you both really like each other. Your best friend seems to care a lot about you because he doesnt want you to get hurt but tell him that its your decison and you respect him caring but its up to you. He really wont stay mad for a long time since you are best friends. Good luck! ♥
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wow..what kind of best friend would say something like that..i think the real problem here is your best friend thretening your friendship over a bf! best friends dont do that...so talk to him.
i would follow your heart,..dont please others..go back out with him if you like him..dont please anyone but yourself.
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well first of all don't listen to your friends only your heart truely knows what to do. As for your guy friend maybe hes trying to protect you and doesnt want you to get hurt maybe he knows something you don't, im not your guy friend so i can't tell you why he doesnt want you going out with him. All i can say as to you going out with the guy again, listen to your heart and not your friends if your friends told you to jump off a bridge would you?? Good luck hope i helped!
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