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Alright.. my boyfriend was talking to my best guy friend today.. and my boyfriend I guess called me a dirty whore... someone else told me to call them b-cuz they heard my boyfriend say some mean shit about me!! I'm getting really tired of him talking shit.. but the thing is he doesnt always treat me this way.. when he is nice to me he is a total sweetheart... I am so stressed I love this boy and I really need some help..
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It's hard to have to realise that people you care deeply for are actually far from perfect, but this particular guy sounds like a creep. You deserve somebody who loves and respects you as a partner, and sadly, it doesn't sound like this guy does. Even if he doesn't treat you badly all the time, the fact is that he does treat you badly, and shows a basic lack of respect for you when he talks about you in such a horrible way, which is just not something you should be putting up with in a partner. I hate to say it, but it sounds like you dump this guy asap and move on with your life.
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Do you really love this guy? If you do, you need to seriously reconsider if you'll put up with him insulting you to your friends. I've said this to a few people, respect is the most important thing in a relationship, and if he doesn't have that for you, its never going to work. I know its harsh, but this guy isn't the be all and end all of life, and there are plenty of guys who can be total sweethearts without calling you a whore! I wouldn't really consider staying with this guy.
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Well, abusers that beat up their girlfriends do the same thing. Verbal abuse is just as bad. I wouldn't go out with anyone who had so little respect for me. I'd do some serious thinking about this relationship, okay?
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If he's stabbing you in the back, then it doesn't matter how he treats you to your face. Of course he's going to be nice directly to you... but from what you've said here, he is treating you like shit behind your back. Is that really worth it? You should not have to put up with shit like that. Also, your "boyfriend" doesn't sound like much of a friend, and needs to grow up.
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