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alright here's a good story. so i met this girl a few months ago, we hit things off really well and we started going out a bit. I was basically head over heels for her, and she liked me a lot as well. Then one day things just suddenly go to hell. I talk to her and she says she simply no longer likes me. I get extremely depressed for a while because it broke my heart. Not much later I find out that basically right after things broke off with her she hooked up with one of my best friends. He confesses this to me and I'm okay with it. Then I find out it happened multiple times, and they went pretty far with it. What would you do.
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I'm with DangerNerd. She clearly doesn't deserve you. Forget her and find someone who does.
As for your friend, I commend his honesty. That took a lot of guts. However, DN has a point, a real friend wouldn't do that to you in the first place. My best friend and I have always stuck to an unspoken rule, we always keep our hands off of each other's boyfriends. Even ex-boyfriends. We do this out of respect for each other, and consideration for each other's feelings. To not do so would be akward among other things. I mean, how are we supposed to trust each other in the future if not?
No friendship can exist without trust. Ask yourself, do you still trust your friend?
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i see how that could depress you. your probobly thinking you will never get out of depression but you will and she may come back or get some inside info on her if she may still like you and then act like you already have another girlfreind
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I am really sorry about this.
He isn't your friend. In my opinion "Friend" means someone who would jump in front of a bullet for you. How many friends do you have when you think of it like that? :-(
I am sorry you fell in with a two-timing slut. It happens. The next girl you like, if possible, take a close look at the trail of broken hearts she has left behind. If there isn't a trail, your odds are way better of being happy.
I am sorry,
DangerNerd
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to be honest there isn't a whole you CAN do.I mean you could get mad and hate them both but why bother? She said she no longer wanted you so find someone new and forget her.The best friend,well tell him you don't care to hear the details.
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Forget about her. Dude, its pretty low when its your best friend. I would never do that to my ex..You broke up and now its just time to move on. I'm pretty sure there are other girls out there and it wont take long before you start a relationship with someone. So move on, and sooner or later..a girl will come into your life !
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