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Well , i was eating lunch with my 'friends' and they were completely ignoring me, so then they were talking about going to a sooftball game at school and didnt even see if i wanted to go.. so then i just left and they said i ditched them, but they werent even acknowlaging that i was there. so then the next day at lunch i went to find them, but i couldnt, so i ended up eating by myself, but they were like oh you probably are just making excuses. so then after school they were walking together, and they looked at me, laughed and then went into the bathroom. this was the day that they were going to the softball game. so yesterday i was talking to lets call her "E" and i told her that i was upset that they were leaving me out on their plans, and she was like ' oh my god, your making this such a bigger deal than it really matters' and then 'oh my god, you know i have to go .' so they all are saying that im making a biggger deal out of this, but when i was making plans, i included them all in it, and then they didnt want to go if one of them werent going so we ended up not even doing it. but this time they didnt even bother to ask me if i wanted to go. sorry this was so long, but i need advice on what i should do. thanks!
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tell the bitches how it is.
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Their not even worth being friends with then. Find new ones and then they'll see what they're missing. It can't be that hard to find a friend. I mean honestly. They'll come crawling back to you and at first don't take them back then after a while be like "See what it feels like to be left out."
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I think you should sit and talk to them again. This time though, you should talk to them in a tone that you are really serious and you want it to change. Yell at them, do whatever it takes even if it embarasses you or them because you need to get it through their sckulls and minds that they need to consider your feelings. If they can't change, then you probably need to find better friends. I know that you probably won't want to consider leaving them for other people but think about it...If you stay being friends with them you won't have any fun like friends help you to do (have fun) and you'll just be miserable, but if you find other friends, they will be able to respect you, listen to your point of view, and include you in their social events. I hope this works out for you, and that I helped! If you have any more questions or comments, post me a message and I'll be sure to answer them the best way I can ASAP!!!!!
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I know what that's like.
The only thing you can do is set them straight. Yes, make a scene. Yell at them. Let them know who's boss, and you're not going to let them walk all over you. You're a person too, and you're not going to take their bull.
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