Ok, here's the deal. I have HIGH morals, and one of them is that i dont want to kiss a guy untill i get married. Well. theres this guy that i really like and he likes me. and if we go out i know that he'll wanna kiss me and i've been thinkg about it and i wanna kiss him. what do i do?? I am afraid if i dont then i'll regret it. And i think i'll regret it if i don't.
PeppErminTtEaiSgoOd4mE answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 8:28 pm: Wow... i can understand your moral being not wanting to have sex b4 your married... but no offense.. not kissing. BUt if you do go out with this guy, just tell him that you have morals and tell him. If he really likes you and wants to be with you, he will lsiten and still be your boyfriend!!!
Hope I Helped!
MaNdYY! [ PeppErminTtEaiSgoOd4mE's advice column | Ask PeppErminTtEaiSgoOd4mE A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 4:14 pm: Whoa, you want to wait 'til marriage to KISS a guy? Kissing is definitely a special thing, but it's not nearly the same as losing your virginity. I mean, kissing doesn't have to be a huge deal. It's fairly innocent. If you think about it, all it is, really, is touching lips. If you're going to wait for marriage for something, I would make it sex - chances are you're not planning on doing that before marriage either, but really...
Kissing is fun. Nothing beats that lightheaded, off-balance feeling a really good kisser can give you. You can't get pregnant from kissing, and you don't HAVE to get carried away in the "heat of the moment". Save that for later.
Just go with it. You like him, he likes you, let the boy kiss you.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
zapreth answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 10:01 am: Kissing isn't the same as loosing your virginity. Kiss if you want to kiss. There is nothing immoral about it, Plus I have gone out with a guy I really thought was great, but when we kissed, nothing. There was just nothing there, so quick end before some big complications. Your choice, and I applaud you for your ideals. I saved mysself for the man I married, but I had kissed other men before. [ zapreth's advice column | Ask zapreth A Question ]
alisonmarie answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 4:56 am: No one can tell you what to do. You need to find some quiet time to sit down and really think about how you feel. Think about all the reasons you've wanted to wait, and then think about all the reasons you now want to kiss this guy.
karenR answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 12:26 am: There is nothing immoral about kissing or hugging. Kiss and hug all day.
If you want to wait until marriage for something make it sex. Kissing and hugging are perfectly acceptable behavior.I don't think there are ANY guys on the planet who would marry you if he couldn't kiss you first!
I am a grandma, trust me kissing is fine:} [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Sherry answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 11:16 pm: My friend said she was going to wait until her wedding day, and then she didnt. And she didnt regret it. Kissing isint a big of a deal. If you wanted to wait for sex, that would be a way better choice. But really kissing isint all that bad! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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