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my best friend
well on friday night i went to the movie with my best friend and we saw a scary movie, and well i was like leaning up against him and i would always hide my face in his hood whenever i got scared, and well his mom picked us up afterwards, just me and him, but we went with like 10 other people, like 5 girls, 5 guys, but they were going out and we werent, only 2 other people werent, so i walked inside and my dad was like, so which one was your date? and he was like hastling me all night. and then i went over to my best friends house on saturday and he told me that his mom was doing the same thing, and then she took us to the movies again that night, but this time it was just me and him, and she was like, "you know i think you guys should consider it because your really cute together" and personally i think so too because we both have brown hair and he's a tiny bit taller than me, and well i didnt say anything, but anyway we saw another scary movie, and i dont know how it happened but we ended up kissing? and my brother was there and he saw it and he got us a ride with his date's parents so while we were in the car his date was like, aw guys come on i swear you two are so cute together. well we didnt think anything of it. but yesterday i went bowling with my brother and we had to take our baby cousin so our other cousin who's our age went too, and my best friend called me and he asked me if i could hang out and i told him what i was doing, but my brother was like, "no you should go hang out with your boyfriend" and my best friend heard it, so he asked me out today, and in school we were hugging and we got in trouble?? but anyway i'm REALLY afraid we're gonna break up, i mean, he tells me he cares about me and he loves me and his mom has always liked me, but i dont know im really scared our friendship wont last. do you have any tips how i can get over this??
sorry its so long.
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I know you feel weird dating your bestfriend, but think about he prolly knows you really well, you two can have fun together, and he likes you for you. Guys dont get any better than that. I know you prolly feel weird being his girlfriend, instead of just his friend, but that will pass if you give it time, cause you'll accept the fact that yall are more than friends. Sometimes you gotta give things time before you can know for sure it will work.But no matter what happens you two will prolly be friends even if yall do end up breaking up, but it might be awkward at first if yall break up.
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ok well if he says he loves you you need to say it to ONLY if you mena it. and if you still feel this wya mayb you need to see him more and still if it isnt workin then mayb you shoudl wiat and see wat happens
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Your situation is complicated, but its soooo common. It's really is a worst case scenerio, but if your that insecure about your relationship then maybe your friendship wasnt as strong as you thought because your obviously having some self concious issues. They may not be apperant but they do exist. They exist in all relationships, but somehow when to really good friends start dating it is really clear. My advice, talk to him about your insecurity in your relationship but be sure to emphasize that you want to be together if that is still the case.
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That's so sweet & congrats on getting together with him.
Anyway, I think you should try talking to him about it telling him about how scared you are that you guys are going to break up and that it's going to later ruin your friendship. There's really no other way you can sort this out. It takes two for a friendship and a relationship so you both need to work on it together.
Good luck, hun.
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Sweetheart, don't let other people push the two of you into something neither of you are ready for right now. You and he are friends that have experimented a bit with a kiss or two and like to hang out. DON'T PUSH THIS! You are not girlfriend and boyfriend over one kiss and some family opinion. If the two of you ever get together let it be your idea, not your family or your friends. I don't have any tips except to learn how you really feel about each other. You are both young and inexperienced. Being "cute together" is nonsense. Luck adn love!
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i think you should just tell him that if yall ever break up, that you still want yall to be best friends. But dont be scared because he wouldnt have asked you out if he didnt like you. Hope it works out!
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nothing ventured nothing gained. Think of it this way, your already going out with him, if you tell him you don't want to go out with him anymore because you want to be friends, it'll be weird between you, and if you just break up in a couple months or whatever it'll be weird. SO RELAX. he likes you, and unless something drastic changes he will for a very long time.
hope I helped, some girl
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Don't be scared about breaking up. I've gone out with my best friend too and our friendship lasted even after the break-up. Don't be afraid! Be happy. Trust me, usually your best friend (if he's told you your his best friend, too) usually cares about you a TON. Just believe in the relationship and don't be afraid! Just let it flow.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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