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back stabber
hi i am 13 and i am a girl.my very best friend talked about me bhinde my back and she keeps telling everyone i am a liar and i am not i feel like i have lost everthing i think i want to die please help fast
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the same thing happends to me all the time the best thing to do is ignore her dont even talk to her. She will just get bored talkin bout you she is not your true friend cuz she talks bout you and call you a liar so like i said dont b her frined and ignore her
Good Luck
~!*JeNn~!*
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you need to talk to your friend and ask her why she is being a 2 faced bitch behind your back. Dying is not the answer tho. I used to be so depressed i wanted to die, but i soon found out it wasnt the snwer so i tried to change my ways, and now things are better. So just talk to your friend and see whats goin on!
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That just happened to me. We weren't quite best friends ((long story)) and we have constantly been seeking revenge for each other. She made me lose a friend that I was about to dump my boyfriend for. Anyways, enough about me... My best advice is to NOT do anything back. This will only make things worse for the both of you. It may seem so hard not to get back at her but DONT DO IT! The best thing to do is talk to her about it. Ask her what made her do this and why she is doing this. Tell her that it made you feel really bad and that you feel that you have lost everything. If she still doesn't stop, still, don't do anything. Just quit talking to her and maybe you shouldn't be friends. I hope I helped! Good luck! RiLeY
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Whoa whoa whoa. Sloooooooooooooooooow down. You don't wanna die. You'd regret it later. Obviously that 'very best friend' of yours, isn't your very best friend, is she? All you have to do is either ignore her or tell her how you feel. My very best friends did that to me and they called me tons of names and it really did hurt so I understand your situation. It happens to almost everyone. So what I did to get over it was confront them about it even though it was harder to see the reason why they did it. That's what you need to do. Ask her why she would say that about you! And are you absolutely positive that she said that? How reliable is the source? You need to consider everything about the situation. But what I really think you should do is talk to someone, preferably an adult, who is trustworthy and tell them about it. Get all the anger out, otherwise it'll get all bottled up and explode like a volcanoe, which isn't cool. Talk to someone, get out all the anger, and move on with your life. I know it sounds ignorant and hard to do, but that's just what you have to do. Cry the tears and move on. Be a soldier.
~Hope that helped~
~If you need any other help feel free to e-mail me or IM me (they are on my advice column)
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~K~
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The same thing happened to me i was very shocked and very sad, but what i learned is that person is not a good friend and maybe finding a new friend is better
hope i helped
Alex
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*It's a popular thing for teens to gossip about eachother, especially close friends! Usually some people gossip about their closest friends because they are jealous or upset with them. You should ask your friend what's bothering her, and see if there's anything you can do to talk about it. After, maybe you could spend the day with her, and show her what your friendship means to her, trust me, she won't stay mad for long! Hope i helped!
x3Jen
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