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some of my friends are really making me mad.. they say that im jealous cause my 2 best friends are hanging out and their leaving me out.. and they said that i have a big mouth and that i tell my friend everything that people tell me.. and they said im nosey.. ughh.. thanx for reading this but what should i do???? cuz my friends have been treating me really different lately cuz my 3 best friends think i like one of my other friends better then them.. please dont say to talk to them cause that doesnt work.. trust me ive tried it a million times! thanx sooo much!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Maybe you should just find some new friends.
Having friends should be that much hassel.And if you can't talk to them then just forget them altogether.
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If they aren't treating you right then they aren't good friends I say dump them and get a new friend. they only want attention I had a friend like that as soon as you stop paying attentionthey start wanting you back. Don't cave in right away make them listen and realise how bad they made you feel and how stressed it made you as well.
If that doesn't work then get new friends
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I would like to tell you that you dont have to talk to them, but unfortunately Communication is the only resort, other wise things will only get worse. I would advise you to have a talk with your three "best friends" and explain to them how your feeling. If they dont understand then maybe you should consider just how "best" of friends are you?
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Dear Help,
It's wonderful that you are asking these questions because it shows that you are aware and you care about your friends. Friends are there for each other in good times and bad. It sounds like you're going through a rough patch right now. If there are questions in your friends minds about what you say to other people and they think you are nosy, there is an issue of lack of trust there. Can your friends trust you? Would you trust you if you were in their shoes? Think about your answers and if it's something you need to work on, think about this... trust is earned. If you want to earn someone's trust, you have to be able to use judgement when relating stories or events that happen with your friends. If it isn't kind, or it's a sticky situation or something that you think they may want to remain confidential, then don't repeat it. Good luck!
Lindacht
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Think about this, in your mind, or out loud alone.
"Do I try to get in others' business?"
If you do, its ok, because you can admit this to yourself, self admitting truly is a very natural and good thing. I think youyr friends shouldn't have a problem telling them everything you hear, except if its from another friend and wanted it kept a secret, now ask:
"Do I keep my promises about keeping secrets?"
If you answer no to these questions, keep asking, because sometimes people don't know it when they are doing it.
If you answered YES:
If you answered yes, then you need to ask them to help you get back to your normal self instead of ignoring you, and if they don't look like they are willing to help, drop them.
If you answered NO:
if you say you didn't do these things, then drop them, they ditched you, and won't even hardly talk to you.
-TheTeenGirl
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if they are treating you that bad then don't hang out with them! find new friends! maybe they are jealous of you. so go get some new friends!!!! lol
-Rachael
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