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okay my buddy said i needed to put this back up...so here it is.

Welcome to my advicenator collumn thingy and hope i can help you with whatever you need help with!

-RaE-

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some of my friends are really making me mad.. they say that im jealous cause my 2 best friends are hanging out and their leaving me out.. and they said that i have a big mouth and that i tell my friend everything that people tell me.. and they said im nosey.. ughh.. thanx for reading this but what should i do???? cuz my friends have been treating me really different lately cuz my 3 best friends think i like one of my other friends better then them.. please dont say to talk to them cause that doesnt work.. trust me ive tried it a million times! thanx sooo much!

if they are treating you that bad then don't hang out with them! find new friends! maybe they are jealous of you. so go get some new friends!!!! lol
-Rachael

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hey, for ela we have to bring in a poem or song lyrics that we like and read them to the class...anyone have any suggestions? (they have to be appropriate for school obviously) thanks!

you should do "skin" by Rascall Flatts!! its a really sad song about a girl who gets cancer and stuff but it doesn't have any bad language. here are the lyrics:
Rascal Flatts - Skin (Hidden Track)



Sara Beth is scared to death
To hear what the doctor will say
She hasn't been well, since the day that she fell
And the bruise just won't go away

So she sits and she waits with her mother and dad
And flips through an old magazine
Till the nurse with the smile stands at the door
And says will you please come with me

Sara Beth is scared to death
Cause the doctor just told her the news
Between the red cells and white, something's not right
But we're gonna take care of you

Six chances in ten, it won't come back again
With the therapy we're gonna try
It's just been approved, it's the strongest there is
And I think we caught it in time
And Sara Beth closes her eyes.

Chorus:
And she dreams she's dancing
Around and around without any cares
And her very first love is holding her close
And a soft wind is blowing her hair

Sara Beth is scared to death
As she sits holding her mom
Cause it would be a mistake for someone to take
A girl with no hair to the prom

For just this morning, right there on her pillow
Was the cruelest of any surprise
And she cried when she gathered it all in her hands
The proof that she couldn't deny
And Sara Beth closes her eyes

Chorus:
And she dreams she's dancing
Around and around without any cares
And her very first love is holding her close
And a soft wind is blowing her hair

Bridge
It's quarter to seven, that boy's at the door
And her daddy ushers him in
And when he takes off his cap
They all start to cry
Cause this morning where his hair had been
Softly she touches just skin

And they go dancing, around and around
Without any cares
And her very first true love is holding her close
And for a moment she isn't scared

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Hey Rachael. OH yeah trying to embarrass me to death?! Ha ha DUH I knew you gave me the bracelets! I was saying it was about time I got them! lol haha just playing. Oh yeah and you know the question I made up well I just made up the guys... for you know a tough question...? lol haha BUT I SURE WOULD DATE A HOLLYWOOD BAD BOY! Or even a regular bad boy ;) You know me!! Remember I took the "If your life was a movie what kind of movie would it be?" and mine was a ADRENALINE-CHARGED ACTION movie!!! HA! Not tough even for the bad boys?! YEAH RIGHT! It WAS supposed to be a romantic comedy.

oh yeah
and Colin Farrell wasn't the guy I dream about... you should know I told you the boy!

colin was the one with the car...you dream about the other ones!

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whats crappin in your crib... seriously lol DANNNNNNNNG you soo lucky! with you know who or you know what and you know when! hint hint! grrr you suck lol hehe :P

haha lol
it wasn't THAT exciting :-P

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Heyyyyy Rae! Dang you made me feel bad that I COMPLETELY forgot about him! :'-( lol haha Well, I'm sure as heck i didn't forget him this year! DUH! lol haha that's funny Oh yeahh! and I finally got those black bracelets! w00t AH! I CAN USE THEM FOR THE VALENTINE'S DAY DANCE! lmao hahahahaha You know, well, everyone knows, I'll need 'em! hahaha

haha sorry aubree i was just giving you a hard time. and i helped you remember!!! :-P and i know you got the bracelets because iom the one who gave them to you!!!!!!! remember? lol

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ok so me nd this guy tlk like everynite, nd we both like eachother nd he is usually really ssweet to me, but then he`ll just like get mad at me for no reasons, like today i sent hima text nd then he sent me one back nd was all like "STOP TEXTING ME!!!!IM OUT OF TEXTS." nd i mean i didnt even kno. is this sumthing i should b worried about?if so wat should i do?

talk to him about it to his face so you can tell by the way he acts whats up and so he can't lie

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Do you think a person in 8th and 9th grade can be in love? Or is it just bogus and a sense of felling or whatever?

sure... i mean why not?

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he was caught for underage drinking! OOOH BAD MICHAEL!

lol so he was jailed?? you'd think they'd just fine him or something. then again he probably has ton of $$ because of the olympics so he'd get bailed out... and he seemed like such a sweet kid

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Everytime I talk to the guys I like I babble like an idiot, because I'm so nervous. ugh. Anyways, I can't stop! It's like.. natural! I talk alot so babbling when I'm nervous doesn't sound to rare, but I NEVER babble around guys! Onnly the guys I like! Weird, huh? I know! HAHA How can I stop babbling? Because now they think I'm some kind of babbling freak! Argh!

if you babble alot then maybe you should let them hold up their end of the conversation. you shouldn't have to be the one to pick what topics to discuss so give them a chance to put in their 2 cents. (it sounds alot better in my head and kinda hard to explain in words so sorry if you dont understand)

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micheal phelps is in jail *teardrop*

OMG ARE YOU SERIOUS??!?!?! (wow now ive turned into the question asker)
wtf did he do?

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ok i have no idea what to get my boyfriend for christmas. he is a skateboarder and he likes to play the drums. hes not like punk or anything hes just normal. (he doesnt like hott topic) his friend says i should get him drumsticks because he is getting a new drumset for christmas, but i dont really want to get him drumsticks. i have no idea. plz help me

get him one of those american experss gift cards so he can go wherever to get whatever he wants!

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Ok! HI! I hope you can help me! I am a 13 year old girl and so are you so i was wondering if you could help me! (i am the one who imed you saying you should put your advice column on your profile but then you said no one went to it... you should know who i am, but i don't want to say out loud) ok i have this guy friend and i talked to him for like 3 hours one night and we had sooo much fun. well, he is kind of.. sort-of ity-bity "jealous" of his friend... but not to an extent where he yells at him or says it to his face. b/c a lot of girls like his friend. and he thinks no girls like him, but a i know a couple or a few do... and i am one of them. he doens't know me ALL that well but he's met me and he's my friend's friend and we talked forever and i opened up to him and said stuff to him that i would never tell any of my close friends. and it is also 1000% harder to open up to him, b/c he's a guy and i likehim.. but i told him EVERYTHING! what boys i liked.... etc. i reallllllllllllllllllllllllllllllly like him and i want him to like me. and if i told him i liked him he would be happy to find out girls like him but if he's says no then i would feel bad from rejection and it would be hard to be his friend any more and noo matter what i don'twant to lose this guy friend b/c he is the sweetest, most pure-hearted, nicest, respectful, funnies guy i know and i would DIE if i lost him as a friend... i reallllly need help! please hlep me!


anonymous girl

since you only talked to him like once talk to him more and get to know him better and stuffs and if you think he likes you then ask him out. but make sure you wait a while or he might get all freaked out and stuff...hope that helps

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Okthere is this one girl in school let's say her name is "mrs. michael phelps" and she is realllllly annoying and she doesn't know it! it's funny and A LOT of people don't like ehr and she thinks "she's the best" and that she'll marry michael phelps.. one day i was about to yell "YOU'RE FULL OF IT!!" ha ha should someone tell her how mean she is?!??!


yeah she needs to know. if shes that full of herself tell her to tone it down or she'll know the truth about her so called "friends".

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okay Rae i have like the most important question....and i really need help and ur kewl so i thought id ask you....okay well i like this guy from a different school....and i dont see him often except for like football games and church and all that good stuff...sooo like last friday my friend went and told him i thought he was hott...he didnt say anything back to her(or she didnt tell me he did)which left me like really confused...and i dont know if i should just flat out tell i like him or just let it go..what should i do???????

go back and ask your friend and see if he really said anything or not. this is what someone else said. (ill add more as they answer it)

This has happened to me before. After my friend told me what happened I decided that I shouldn't just hide from him the rest of the year. I got his phone number and called him up. We talked for a while and then I invited him to go out with some of my friends and me on Friday. He told me that it sounded like fun and he went. On Friday he ended up learning alot about me and we went out a few times after that. We ended up dating for a while after that.I hope this helped you!

well i have had that happen before..and i didnt hide my feelings or anything i kinda flirted around with him.. and he flirted back, well we started talking more and more and became really good friends.. then he asked me out and we dated for almost 7months..

I dont know if i would just ask him out not knowing how he feels but dont hide your feelings because then if he likes you he might think you dont like him anymore so he might move on! but i would start talking with him and stuff and i mean if he ignores you or avoids you he is an asshole because he could atleast tell you if he is interested or not... hope that helped sweetie.. good luck!!

When this happened to me my friend wouldnt tell me the truth because she also liked him, i knew i had to find out the truth so i talked to him one on one and we were friends for a while and then ended up having a good relationship..i say go for it hope i helped xox tessa

This HAS happened to me, I hid my feelings about a boy until it was too late...and he got a g/f. Boys arent really that expressive with their feelings, they think thats a girl thing or something... so if hes not sayin anything, its normal.But you should definitly tell him your feelings, whatever way your most comfortable with. And if it doesnt work out with him, there are plenty more fish in the sea! Hope I helped!

Well this did happen to me...sort of. I just waited it out and things turn out ALOT better when you don't just rush in and make the first move because things like this take time. So just wait for a definete answer before you do anything. GOOD LUCK!

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Okay, I was going out with - lets call him "Michael" - for a month. Then one day at school "Micheal" told - lets call him "Bob" - to break up with me for him since he was in my next class. Well "Bob" didnt tell me first "Ian" did. So then I went into 3rd period, but I forgot my hoodie so I went back to my locker. "Micheal" was in the hall so I went to ask him if he really broke up with me. He said "yeah sorry" and kind of laughed, but it was his lil 'im sorry but i dont really care laugh'.
This was on a Friday, and there was a high school football game that night. I told my friend Erin to go ask him why he broke up with me. But he wouldnt tell her. So then I went and took his hat (a great way to get guys to talk to you) and asked him. He said that like 7 (which is my least favorite number) people told him that I was going to break up with him, so he broke up with me first. Then my other friend went to talk to him and he said that he might ask me out again but he doesnt know since he likes someone else and he thought I was mad at him or something. But then Alicia and I went over to talk to him again later and I dont remember what we said, but he said "im sorry" and I said no your not and walked away from him. Then he kept following me and saying hes sorry but i wouldnt look at him, just kept walking away. The rest of the night was downhill from there.

He said he just wanted to be friends but he still liked me. And of Course I still liked him too. About a week later I cut myself. I told my best friend and she told Jeremy, one of "Micheals" friends. Jeremy told "Micheal" and then at the football game that Friday night, he came over too me when I was talking to my friends and said "We need to talk" So I went to talk to him and he said did you cut yourself? and I said maybe. and he said I dont want you hurting yourself over me. and i just shrugged my shoulders and he was like..whatever..and walked off. then later that night we were talking and then i said well im not good enough for you..im just a "cutter" remember? and he said NO IM NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU AND I WANT YOU BACK then blocked me (this was on AIM) I really got my hopes up after that.

Then about a week later he asked out my other best friend and they went out for like 3 days. Then about another week later he asked out this girl named Kelsey. Ive always hated her. She thinks shes the best and shes a b****. Their still going out now and I have no idea what to do. I love him he means so much to me. I still cut myself. I really need him to care. MY parents no and only said to stop, but i neeeeeeed him to care. what do i do? -confused one-

if "micheal" really cared he wouldn't let you hurt yourself. and u really need to stop cutting yourself. its really bad for you and can end up going farther than u want it to. if you stop cutting and think then you'll realize you most likely dont love micheal, but the fact that u r hurting urself for him is making you believe it.

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Hey rach ok well i know you and i bet you can guess who this is haha but ne ways i wanna paint my nails black but i know people will be like what the heck so i painted my thumbs black and my other fingers pink cuz those r my 2 fav colors besides aqua haha do you think it would look ok??

your cool cool!!!! thanx 4 the help

yeah it'd look fine. but maybe alternate pink and black. so what if poeple think badly of it??its ur nails so screw them.

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Hey!! michael phelps is soooooo hot!!!!!! oml i can't believe i touched him!!!! the happiest day day of my life was september 17th! ok now for the question: don't you agree he's hottt?!?!?

OMG YES!!! HES SO HOTT IN PERSON!!! I GOT TO TOUCH HIM TOO!!!!!!!!!

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does this count as a question?? if not o well! I HATE THEATRE ARTS 3!!!!

Yeah its not the best. but its not the worst. i hate it then i like it then i hate it more. depends. for the flipping fall show i hate it for the Whinnie the pooh thing i hate it. for the contests i hate it. for the no tests or aftr school stuff i like it.

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Is it not good if non blondes have blonde moments too? Because i have them all the time.

everyone has blonde moments. personally i dont think blondes are dumb its jsut the way they are made out to be. its just a play on the way people act. so u should be perfectly fine with having blonde moments because EVERYONE does at some point or another.

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