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Okay, I was going out with - lets call him "Michael" - for a month. Then one day at school "Micheal" told - lets call him "Bob" - to break up with me for him since he was in my next class. Well "Bob" didnt tell me first "Ian" did. So then I went into 3rd period, but I forgot my hoodie so I went back to my locker. "Micheal" was in the hall so I went to ask him if he really broke up with me. He said "yeah sorry" and kind of laughed, but it was his lil 'im sorry but i dont really care laugh'.
This was on a Friday, and there was a high school football game that night. I told my friend Erin to go ask him why he broke up with me. But he wouldnt tell her. So then I went and took his hat (a great way to get guys to talk to you) and asked him. He said that like 7 (which is my least favorite number) people told him that I was going to break up with him, so he broke up with me first. Then my other friend went to talk to him and he said that he might ask me out again but he doesnt know since he likes someone else and he thought I was mad at him or something. But then Alicia and I went over to talk to him again later and I dont remember what we said, but he said "im sorry" and I said no your not and walked away from him. Then he kept following me and saying hes sorry but i wouldnt look at him, just kept walking away. The rest of the night was downhill from there.
He said he just wanted to be friends but he still liked me. And of Course I still liked him too. About a week later I cut myself. I told my best friend and she told Jeremy, one of "Micheals" friends. Jeremy told "Micheal" and then at the football game that Friday night, he came over too me when I was talking to my friends and said "We need to talk" So I went to talk to him and he said did you cut yourself? and I said maybe. and he said I dont want you hurting yourself over me. and i just shrugged my shoulders and he was like..whatever..and walked off. then later that night we were talking and then i said well im not good enough for you..im just a "cutter" remember? and he said NO IM NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU AND I WANT YOU BACK then blocked me (this was on AIM) I really got my hopes up after that.
Then about a week later he asked out my other best friend and they went out for like 3 days. Then about another week later he asked out this girl named Kelsey. Ive always hated her. She thinks shes the best and shes a b****. Their still going out now and I have no idea what to do. I love him he means so much to me. I still cut myself. I really need him to care. MY parents no and only said to stop, but i neeeeeeed him to care. what do i do? -confused one-
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What you do is B**** the D*** and T******* the G****** until T****** does not ******, Problem solved.
Also you seen to have messangers having their own messangers and things get really confusing.
Care about what? are you cutting yourself so he feels sorry for you? Cause then you're no better than those "Vietnam" vets who shot their own legs off to get your spare change.
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ok im gonna be strait up with u and not go all phsyco therapist this guy he sounds like a jerk seriously how do u like somone who totally blew u off with nothin any decent guy wouldnt do that my advice to u is find another guy somone who cares more about u and whos sweet and doesnt play these little mind games with u hes totally dumb he dumps u for somone else and than says he wants u back and wuts he do does he ask u out no he asks out ur best friend and then after that still nuthin he asks out a bitch hes got himself into shit cuz after this whos he gonna have hes gonna end up a 70 year old man who hasnt had a date since high school hes gonna be sittin on his fat ass watchin porn cuz hes a pathetic loser trust me im a guy i kno this shitso find a guy whos not like him and ull be ok
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if "micheal" really cared he wouldn't let you hurt yourself. and u really need to stop cutting yourself. its really bad for you and can end up going farther than u want it to. if you stop cutting and think then you'll realize you most likely dont love micheal, but the fact that u r hurting urself for him is making you believe it.
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Ok, this guy is being a jerk. If he really cared about you, he wouldn't go and date all those other girls, especially a best friend of yours. It's really not worth your time sweetie. You don't deserve to be rejected like that when you didn't do anything. Try telling him how you feel first. And see what he says. Personally I would just try to get over this guy. But if you really care for him, talk to him about it and let him know. And please, please stop cutting! PLEASE! It's very dangerous. I've been there and done that, it's not good for you. Good luck and if you need anything, just ask me and I'll be there for you. I know a lot about relationships.
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Well obviously he doesnt care about you. You need to move on and find a better guy. He seems like a jerk, and I know it'll be hard..but move on. it will take some time, but you'll like another guy sooner or later! If you need any more help leave one in my inbox.
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