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All these guys....


Question Posted Monday March 14 2005, 1:22 pm

Okay heres my problem... Sry if long...
All these guys like me for some reason.
One guy.. hes my step-dads girlfriend's son. He saw me over the summer when i was dating his cousin. Well i went to his house friday night to pick up his mom with my dad. On the way home to drop me off at my moms house.. my dads girlfriend told me that her son likes me and all his friends want to meet me. I guess he tells his friends how pretty i am to him and stuff like that. But i dont think im very pretty at all.
Then theres this guy im going out with, since yesterday at work. (i work with him)
We liked each other for a while now. But anyways, i really like him, but if something happens between us then i dont want us to stop talkin or anything like that. Should i tell him that if something ever happens between us, we cant stop talking and/or being friends?
Anyways.... does anyone here know y these guys are starting to like me?

Christine


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karenR answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 8:44 pm:
I don't see a problem! You can have all kinds of guy friends dating or not.

Yes you should tell them that you still want to be friends if you date and break up.It doesn't always work out that way but it's worth trying.
It may not happen over night though it may take time to be friends again.

Keep in mind that step-dads girlfriends son (what a mouthful) relationship could get weird if his mom and your step dad break up or something.

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blondedramaqueen91 answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 10:12 am:
Guyz can be the absolute wierdest beings on the planet. You should be flaterted that all these guyz like you. Right now the guy at your work had you first so you should continue dating him. You get to see him every day where as you can't see the other guy and all his friends everyday. So just go with the flow and you'll flow back into balance.

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mgh12 answered Monday March 14 2005, 7:26 pm:
They are probably becoming more mature, and realizing that you aren't that bad.

*Marielle*

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TheTeenGirl answered Monday March 14 2005, 4:17 pm:
Nobody knows why anyone likes anyone, it just happens, theres no particular reason. If something does happen between you and your current guy, it is possible to be friends, but you need to know that if you break this guys' heart, he won't want to be your friend at first, he will need time to heal. Obviously you may not think you're pretty, but these boys just might think you are, and you should get to like the way you look too, and not because other guys do, but because you only hurt yourself when you put yourself down like that, and you're lucky you have guys that tell you that you're pretty or want to go out with you, at least you have a hint, lots of girls are having trouble with their looks because they have nobody to tell them. Stay with the guy that treats you better, who has never put you down in anyway on purpose. But, you need to have your boyfriend tell you what is so beautiful about you, so that it will help you.


-TheTeenGirl

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chaos answered Monday March 14 2005, 3:22 pm:
Well, just being nice and thoughtful get you a long way.
I would seriously not date your possibly future stepbrother. If he moves in with your family later, it will makes everything weird.
Just when you decide to go out with these people let them understand you still want to be their friends even if a relationship begins.

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i3ARBIExLOVE answered Monday March 14 2005, 1:39 pm:
OKay, they both like you because i guess you are pretty. Also you should tell both of them if something ever happens between us we should never ever stop talking.
Always there..
Donna

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