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Not 2 Close 4 Comfort
Ok so I have a guy friend, and he's one of my best friends. We have a really good friendship, he's like a brother really. And I love him, and I'm pretty sure he knows it. But he's really hot n heavy with this girl, who I can't stand. She's one of those girls who are really pretty, and knows they are really pretty. I'm not sure what I'm trying to do really, it's just a problem, and it hurts. He'd never do anything to intentionally hurt me, I know that. I'm open to any advice! Thanks!
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You just stay friends for now and if he is someday available maybe he will turn to you.
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Hi, well if this girl knows she's pretty she's probably stuck up. ANd if your friend is a great guy he will see that and brake up with her. If shes not then wait, definatley don't bring it up too much around the boy. He'll get annoyed. I no, I'm a guy. But most of all, be yourself and he'll probably see your the better person.
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I'm trying to decide between 2 things here:
*Are you upset because hes with a girl you hate?
*Or are you upset because hes just with another girl, and you are jealous?
Now, it is ok to get feelings for your best friend, even one you've just thought of as a brother. This happens, but if its just the fact that it sucks that hes with someone you hate, maybe you need to remember why it is that you hate her, if she has ever done something to you, like hit you, hurt you, made fun of you, then maybe you need to share these reasons with your friend, because he could be upset about you guys not being friends. But, at this point, I think communication is the way to go.
-TheTeenGirl
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Well since he's like a borther to you.. you should like that he's happy with her jus try not to spend time with him with her around... when she starts doing shit to hurt him emotionally or physicaly then do something bout it.. but there isnt really a big issue going on.. hope ive helped much luv dez x0x0
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Are you jealous? Do you want to be like her, or do you want to be with him? Or, do you just not like the girl? Is she bitchy?
There has to be a legitimate reason for not wanting them to be together, and the most important thing is figuring out why you don't want them together. once you determine your answer, talk to your friend. Don't forget to tell him that you love him, and that you only want what's best.
Good luck.
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