Hello! I am a 24 year old male in seek of a female. I really need help with what to do and how to do it becasue everyone thinks that it is impossible for me to get one after several attempts of people trying to help me. I really want someone that I am compatable with and that will make me happy...ect. Does anyone have any ideas? Oh yea and does anyone know what to do with this situation... there are a lot of girls YOUNGER than me that have "crushes" on me and I dont know what to do and how to get them off of my back before I get in trouble for something that I didnt do! Please help
**Lovelost**
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Melanie4981 answered Monday February 14 2005, 10:12 am: Well I'm a 23 year old female and the best chance a guy has of getting my attention is by making me laugh!
Frmo what I know of me and my close female friends we like guys to have a sense of humour, be honest, act their age and just generally be cool.
as for the younger girls, if you ignore them they will soon get bored and find someone else to harass!
Believe me - I used to be one!!!!
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maria2653 answered Monday February 14 2005, 8:34 am: ok stay away from those little girls, and to find a girlfriend go to www.aim.com and on the right side of the page its like a dating service thingy. hope i helped [ maria2653's advice column | Ask maria2653 A Question ]
fireant30 answered Sunday February 13 2005, 5:19 pm: It sounds like I wish I was 10 years younger and single...lol.
My mother's advice was always to look for a special person someplace you enjoy being-if you like outdoors, don't look for a girl in the mall. If you don't drink, dont cruise the bar scene. You get it. The advice to be yourself is good advice (kudos to who gave it). Be honest about what you want and who you are and the right girl will happen to you when you least expect it.
Regarding the younger girls, avoid the ones that are "too young" (ie: jailbait). Decide who is too young and stay way away. Age is less a matter now than it was in high school for you and will bacome even less in the future. Don't get caught up in numbers and miss the right girl. (I'm older then my husband).
Clash2004 answered Sunday February 13 2005, 3:47 pm: Dear Lovelost,
To get women to notice you (that are your age) try to interact with more of them that you know are around your age. Being yourself is always a good way to go if you ask me. For these other girls just don't do anything around them or with any of them that could potentially/seriously get you into trouble.
Signed,
Clash2004 :) [ Clash2004's advice column | Ask Clash2004 A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Sunday February 13 2005, 3:45 pm: Hey, I'm sorry! Lol. Try doing those online dating services. My brother, who's 19, did this and found someone. It didn't work out too long, but that's just because he's a jerk, lol. I'm 16, but I still know how you feel. I want to find that someone, too. Try going to different parties, or have one of your own, and tell your friends to bring all the girls they know! As for the younger girls, just tell them you're not interested or avoid them any way you can. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
XxLiiLSiiNgErXX answered Sunday February 13 2005, 3:44 pm: Whoa... if this is who i think it is then i will ottaly bug out... but anyways.. First of all... tell all those people that yo are WAAAY too old for them and that it would never work out. second of all.. Dont take advice from anyone but yourself and your heart. I think that maybe you should go to colleges around your area and find someone that way. or go to the mall... cuz you know... girls LOVE shopping. Or go to a bar or something... Chicks are usually at bars...and usually looking to! hmm... I dont know what else to tell ya... unless if this is the person that I think it is then I could tell you lots :-p
Hope I helped!
**Ashley [ XxLiiLSiiNgErXX's advice column | Ask XxLiiLSiiNgErXX A Question ]
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