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about a friend of mine...
Usually my friend and i dont fight at all...but lately shes been ..pissing me off a bit. .Lately..idk shes been moody and i dont like it. It was like she didnt appreciate that i was driving her somewhere...the ride was late. She was only concerned wit her plans for later..going to a game. I guess im aggrivated with her..how can i get over this aggrevation? I dont think i want to confront her because that would be making a big deal about things..what can i do?
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tell her shes pissing you off.. shes probably going to get mad but jeezus christ, she'll get over it. dont drive her any where anymore, and why would u drive HER somewhere when shes not even hanging out with you? thats dumb.. make her pay u for gas.
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well the first thing that comes to mind, is that maybe somethings going on in her life that is making her moody.. i dont know.. but just be cheerful and nice, and if it really gets too annoying just ask her just be like: So whats new? has anything happend or anything because your kind of acting different.. and if she says no be lik "o ok" then drop it.
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It might be better to make a slightly big deal out of things now rather than to wait and let things get worse so that it's made into a huge deal...
You should talk to her, but don't confront her - she'll feel like she's being attacked. She could just be going through a bad time at home right now, so be there for her and do your best to ignore anything annoying she does. If it's more than one thing, only talk to her about one of the issues - otherwise, she'll think she's being attacked (again). Try and get her to talk about what's going on, but don't force it - just make sure that she knows you're there when you need her. Try talk to another friend about her in the meanwhile, so that you aren't bottling it all up.
Good luck!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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Good grief she's your friend. Tell her that you felt really mad the other day when she said "x." Ask her what's going on with her, she may need to tell you.
She may just hate depending on other people for a ride. It's just not fun. She needs to learn to bring a book or something to do to distract her while she is waiting. Then she won't feel like she is wasting time.
We all get in bad moods and sometimes it spreads to other people. Maybe today will be different.
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Well maybe there is something going on behind the scenes that you haven't realized. She may be dealing with some problems that she hasn't felt comfortable talking about yet, and this could be part of her problem. I've found with myslef when i holdthings in for too long i become really irritable and i get pissed off over little things and make a big deal over stupid stuff. Look a little deeper into it, has she been acting down lately? Has she seemed sad or like something is frustrating her? Maybe you should just sit her down and ask her how everything is going and let her know that she has seemed a little irratable lately and you just wanted to make sure things were going okay. Reassure her that she can talk to you about anything cause that is what friends are for of course! You don't have to confront her and make a big scene just talk to her and seem concerned and if she says everything is fine then just be like okay well i'm glad to hear that, it just seems that lately you've been irritable and i just wanted to make sure everything was okay. She might not even realize she is acting this way and this may help her to see that. And chances are she won't get mad about it because you are approaching her in a concerned fashion!! Hope i could help! : )
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Friends go through funks. PEOPLE go through funks. I know alot of people (including myself) who are particurly pissy around certain times of the year, and I definately lose contact with alot of my friends, because I can't stand being around them. I'm not saying this is what the problem is with your friend, I'm just saying, give her some space, and just talk to her...no body likes to feel uncared about. :-)
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maybe...just maybe, you've been spending too much time with eachother? i mean ive felt the same way about my best friend before, we just needed some breathing room. or you could kick her ass out of the car and let her hitchhike buuutt, if you truly value her then just give it time.
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dont.....be.....such.....a.....bitch....and quit using so many periods. its annoying.
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