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14 and 5 children....
hi i have a slight problem.. i cant stop sleeping with guys 15 years older than me. My last boyfriend had 3 kids with me. How can i stop sleeping with all these guys? what should i do?
Please help me... I need help..
MOLARRY CURLLLY
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start sleeping with guys 10 years older than you and work your way down. that's the way to kick an addiction
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go out with guys who arent going to pressure or want to have sex with you. talk about sex at the beginning of your relationship that way its clear that you're not planning to do it. also, set yourselves a limit to how far you'll go. for example you may want to say the most you can do with me is feel me and thats it. it looks like your going for the bad guys. try to stay away from those perverted ones who say they love you just so they can have sex with you. most importantly, go out with a guy who wears condoms!!!!!! with condoms, ur protected so you can still have sex and most likely wont get pregenant. it sounds like sex is almost an addiction for you. i would also recommend seeing a thereapist.
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Maybe you need to ask yourself why you feel the need to do this to yourself. Why not date boys closer to your age. Or if you need help contact an organization for situations like this. The problem here is that you need to be the one to make the change for yourself. the more you keep doing thsi to yourself the more you keep hurting yourself. It's time to take action but it's going to be up to you to lead this fight for your life. It will take more than this advice to help you. You need to talk to people who probabaly have if not the same something almost what your going through. It doesn't make you weak if you do this, it makes you better. Better to want to help yourself. Be proud of who you are so when your children get older they can be proud of you.
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Stop by thinking how you want to hold your head up with pride and dignity. Its not hard. You can still have a bf and even have fun with him..just remember what happned the last time you slept with someone. You had children. Enjoy the sex later in life..for now.. try to just enjoy being a kid..and also concentrate on raising your children.
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If your not on the pill, get on it. If you don't use condoms, your going to have to start. You can't afford to have anymore children. It sounds like your addicted to sex. Try laying off for alittle while. You're only young and you already have 5 kids, wow! Maybe when you feel like you need sex, try to please yourself, instead of going out to find a guy to do it for you.
♥ Krissy
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