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My dads not here for x mas!
well you see my dad just got up and left last night...he didnt tell anyone where he was going or when he would be back, we didnt even know he left...so after awile i called his cell...he answered and when i asked where he was he told me driving...i asked where, he siad the mountians when i asked when he'd be back he said WHEN I FEEL LIKE IT! and hung up!...i havent slept in my room becuz im scared he'll show back up and hurt me...hes a drunk and a very mean drunk...im really scared and upset becuz im daddy's lil girl and i want him home for christmas but aty the same time i wish he would leave forever! i dont know what to do anymore...plz if you have any advice plz tell me!
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Thats a scary situation. Don't worry, stay with your mom, she'll protect you. If anything happens you have to call the police. Maybe its a good idea to look for a place for your dad to become sober.
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Maybe I would talk to your mom about this maybe they should move into serperate houses until everything is worked out and better. I would call him again and say hey dad merry christmas love you.. just letting him know you wish him a good one and love him and hopefully he will take that to mind- Merry christmas!! ((please rate)) Trix!
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Aw, I'm sorry. I completely understand- my dad is a jerk too. I think your dad is just trying to get attention so DON'T let him see you're upset. He needs to seriously change, and that won't happen if you keep forgiving him.
Enjoy christmas with the people who love you year round and try to enjoy your holiday.
Kristy
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everychild wants there whole family home for christmas. it's cute that your a daddy's girl no matter how bad your dad may make life for you but sometimes you just gotta make youself happy and not always everyone else. if he is ruining your christmas then dont' think about it. just enjoy christmas with the people who love you all year round and not just when they feel like it. sorry if there's so much harshness. merry holidays :)-
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I know you want to be close to your dad right now, especially since its the holidays, but i think staying away is the better answer. You have lots of other people who love you like your family and your friends. Stick by them and let your dad unwind and figure things out. Dont let his problem get to you..its his issue, and he needs to deal with it. For now try and have a great Christmas :)
-melissa
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If your really that scared I would stay away from him. Nobody wants you to get hurt. Stay close to your friends and other family and they'll help you get through this. I hope I helped!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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the closer you are to him, the more hes going to hurt you hun. and no one wants to get hurt, seems to me that your parents are divoriced? im not quite sure but if they are, try spending time with your mother and telling her whats going on, or tell another relative, and since your dad drinks maybe when hes sober talk to him about things. i hope you have a good xmas either way! merry christmas! x0
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