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My best friend hates me
okay so i have this best friend ..well sort of, okay me and him 2 months ago, had a huge fight about how i felt, i stopped feeling as if he loved me like he said he did, and he got extremley mad at me and blocked me online, and got a new sn , pretty much just completley made me get away from him, weve had fights like this before, and hes the type of guy that is always right and can never be wrong...so... i talked to a bunch of my friends, and he really did treat me bad...i was like his dog..and so yeah, i know i deserve better and like my friend says "its not that i miss him, i just miss what we once had* and it was an AMAZING frienship..ive never been so close to soemoen in my life...so yeah, my question is, should i try to call him and say merry christmas? I mean its been 2 months...dont you htink he'd be over it by now...and my sister says he seems as if its totally over, and i shouldnt try,i sent him a x-mas card and didnt hear anything back from him, so :/ I dont know what to do...and this whole thing ended because of one chick that his life revolved around...help me :(
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Well maybe you could try and patch things up between him and that girl. But i mean dont let him be the ones that turns your night to day. (center of attention) But just try to be the best person you can be and nothing will be wrong with that! At least you are trying and thats whats important!! Good job! HaPpY hOliDays! (rate me) <3 Trixxy!
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If you're comftorable with him treating you ," bad
like his dog", then certainly try and talk to him again . Maybe you could go over to his house, email him, talk over the phone to him, and appologize over the arguement . Tell him how you feel and that you miss him very much . It's a possibility of him not accepting you back because his pride is so great . But then , that is if he
rejects the reforming of the friendship, maybe your better off not being his friend . Go for it though . Follow your heart .** MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR !**
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I'm sorry, that sux. I think you should try and call him and wish him a merry christmas. Tell him how much you missed him and how much you want to be friends again. Even though his friends say he's over it, he might be faking it. But if you call, and he's still holding a grudge, I'd forget about it, and get new friends. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Happy Holidays!
~*Erin*~
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yeah, i think that you should call and wish him a merry Christmas. that way, even if he's still mad at you, he will know that you dont hold a grudge and want to still be friends. dont mention the fight or anything, just call and wish him a merry Christmas. i dont know the reasons for your "fight", but there is a good chance that both of you were wrong and right in different areas and wouldnt admit it. i know how it is to know and try to be friends with someone who can never be wrong. its hard. especially when you can prove that they are wrong. dont leave a message if he's not home, you will want to talk to him personally. if he sounds angry, you might want to apologise, even if it wasnt your fault.
-FunnyCide
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I think you should call him and tell him merry christmas. If he answers you then try to start to talk about what's been going on. And then maybe things will get better. If he keeps ding this to you, maybe he's not everything you thought he was. I hope I helped and I hope things work out!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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yeah tell him marry christmas. if he doestn talk to you, at least you know youve tryed right? if you fail at least you fail knowing that you tryed to do something about it then lay around thinking about it all the time.
~jourdan
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