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ANOYING COUSIN
I just moved to Florida from califorina a week ago,i now live with my aunt and uncle and 2 cousinns,AMANDA 17,JAACOB 15...I'M 15 turning 16 pretty soon...My cousin AMANDA is verry rude and annoying and just really a B*&%$...(i dont like to curse)anyhow from the day i got off the plain she wasnt all that nice to me...so over this week i have been hanging out with JACOB and i try to ignore her and stay out of her way...this makes me unhappy because we are family and we should be able to get along...i understand that maybe it is because i am getting all the attention but she has a job and she goes to school and becccause she is n advanced eveything she gets tons of homework and i hardly see her but when i do i wish i hadent...she is not verry social because of family issues...my question is this, is therre anything i can do so i dont have to walk on eggshels when i am arouund her???
thank you,
LISA...
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well try to get to know her and be extremely nice to her and if she still has a problem with you then you should come right out and ask her what's bothering her. And if she say's its you then try to figure out what you all can do to figure it out.
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well ask her to do sumthing fun w/ u like a movie if that dont work then try to stay low around her and in time she will grow on u.
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ok..so where does it say that all family memebers get along...mine certainly do not!
maybe she is jealous that you will get attention from her mother?? 17 is a pretty selfish age. You really have a vinsight to what she is feeling for she is jealous.
sounds to me..even if YOu were pwrfectshe would be bitchy. do you sahre a rom wiht her?/Is her space being invaded?
Boo hoo on the homwork..ok..trust me you will have a ton too in a few years.
Nope there are some people who are such PIA (pain in the____)that it is like a minefield..though you could try to flatter her and giver her PLENTY of space.
I am os sorry you are in this position..is it temp. until you guys find your own place?How does Jacob treat you??
So get out of her way..keep you wits about you..look in the want ads for an apratment your mom can afford!
Pa am thinking of you and hoping that it gets better.
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Just try to spend some time with her, even if its just like getting a drive somewhere if you dont have a car, or ask her if she wants to see a movie 2gether, or somthing sister-ly, and maybe if u guys talk, then itll be better.
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maybe you should try talking to her.. like asking her why you guys have such a grudge against eachother? tell her that you don't like the way things are, and you'd like to be closer to her. good luck :o)
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