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my friend's in a bad relationship
my friend is with this guy who cheats, talks really awful about her, and all this other crap, and a couple of my friends told her everything that he did, and she was like "i cant believe you'd say that! you're just jealous b/c he likes me and not you!" and we dont want her to get hurt, but we dont know how to get her to listen.. any suggestions?
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find out who the cheaters gf is and have her meet your friend and be like 'who do you all go with' and they'll be like 'we go with the same guy like OMG!' and if that doesnt work record soem of the things that the cheater says about your friend with a tape recorder and be extra sneaky!!!
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if i were you i would try anything to get proof .. like 3 waying or notes .. internet whatever you can do to get proof is good ! just try to get proof because if you dont .. its gonna hurt her worse if you dont get proof .. than if you did ! but just get proof and maybe that will help =)*hope i helped your problem* (LAUR)
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Tell her that he really said that about her and you are not jealous of him. Tell her that he cheats on her and be specific with who he cheated on her with so she no you ain't playing with her!
xox britt
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honestly, there's not much more you can do. you can try to get him to fess up, or admit he doesn't like her; but you tried. that's all you can do.
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You should maybe bring a taperecorder to school or maybe do like a 3 way call and have ur friend on the phone to and have her be quiet and try to get her b/f to admit it
Hope that helps!
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she wont listen to you, its not what she wants to hear. so you cant do much about it now, just be there for her
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I think your friend might be in denial. Maybe she just doesnt WANT to beleive it, you know? Well tell her again..and when she says your jealous..remind her that your her best friends and you dont want to see her hurt. Shes your best friend..how can she not trust you? Tell her that..and tell her how badly this guy talks to her. once you try and try and she still doesnt beleive you..what else is there to do? You warned her at least and tried your best. Theres nothing else you can really do except go all secret agent and take pictures and videos. But thats kinda to the extreme right? well you and your friends did the right thing..and if your friend doesnt wan to beleive you..then she ``ll find out the hard way :/
-melissa
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talk to both of them but your friend first. tell her that if she's not gonna listen then the friendship is over. sooner or later, atleast a couple of days she probably come crawling back. if you don't wanna do that, try and get other ppl to tell her what's going on w/ her boyfriend.
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