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where should i live?
13/f i have just moved in my 8th grade year which is still hard for me to get over but my parents rly don't seem to get it that i'm miserable in my new town. my grandmother lives in my old town and offered for me to live with her. and it sounds rly good sometimes my parents and i disagree alot and i know most teenagers do but they still treat me like i'm 5 and its hell forme to live with them. i don't know what i should do. all my true friends are in my old town and i'm there every weekend. if you think i should live with my grandma please tell me what to say to my parental units! please help i have been lingering this for a long time and i have def given my new town a chance i've been here for 5 months
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Hey girl, talk to your grandmother about it, tell her you feel miserable and ask her if she can talk to your parents. Going to a new school and being miserable sucks, make your parents a deal that if you go there for one more month and dont like than you can move with your grandparents and see what they say! keep your head up girl and talk to your grandmother!
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sit them down and tell them that you are un happy.If that dosn't work then tell them u will run away. If that dosnt work then you trully need to tell your parents that you want to live with your grandmother.If they say no then tell them that,that was ther last chance and run away 2 ur old town.
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aww, i can totally relate girl! im now a freshman, and in 6th grade i moved. i started 7th grade in a new school and it wasn't so good, i cried everyday because i messed all my old friends and stuff and i didnt want to start everything all over again. but it turned out that the next two years in my new school turned out to be the geratest. you'll meet new people and trust me it'll all be good. sometime you could use a change. now i am so happy cause i have the greatest friends and memories. sorry but i just thought id share that with you. hey i also wanna give you a tip, 8th grade is gonna be really fun, dont take anything for granted, have as much fun as you can. now im a freshamn, and i just think about all the memories i've had in juniior high and stuff and it makes me cry, practically every day. high school is going to be very different, so just make the best out of 8th grade. have as much fun as you can possibly can because i regret not doing stuff in 8th. now im in high school so it is soo totally different and i dont even talk to anyone from my old school. everything has changed. dont worry, you'll find friends and guys =) like at my old school, *no one* and i mean no guy liked me, then when i came to a new school all the guys liked me. so just you know, a new school a new start. dont worry! everything will work out perfictly. just remember:;, life is short, live it up! cause you'll regret it in a couple of years, date, party, join sports, do everything you possibly can, make the best out of your last year! 'cause theres no going back, no second chances. believe me, if i could i would and i'd change so mayn things! well sorry but i just wanted to let you know what its like. if you need more helpleave one in my inbox or IM me at lollpopgurl769 on AIM. good Luck, no worries! have fun! * xo - angie * =)))
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you ahve given it time..so they vannot acuse you of that.
If your life with your parwents is so bad tell them
Say mom and dad...I cannot live up to my potential here..our homelife is too stressful right now for me to continue to live here...I need to be in a stable home andf grandmother can provide that. I lvoe you..but right now..in order for me to do the bet I can..please..let me live wiht her.
but you ahve to keep up yourside..the best grades.a.nd being a really good housemate to your grandmother..ok
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i think you should go and talk to your parents. they love you alot and they want the best for you. just tell them that your not happy where you are and your grandmother offered for you to live with her. and tell them you think you would be happier staying with her for the school year and work out visitation. you could go and see your parents on breaks when you not in school and during the summer. just talk to them and work things out
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if you are not happy where you are i think you should move to your granmothers. only move if you think its the right thing. if you were to move i think you should tell you parents this :"mom,dad, grandmother has asked me if i could live with her because that is where i want to be back with my friends and where i know everything and everyone." if they say no just try to convince them you are very unhappy and they should understand that you need to be happy too. try to make them understand you.
Best of Luck!!
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no1 gives a shit :D
hmmm, a racist bitch... haha u ass.. learn to swear.. dont TRY to fack it yu little whore.
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i'm going through the same thing. You really have to go and live with your grandmother. Your just going to have spill your guts out to your parents, maybe cry... I used a story to tell my parents how I felt but they didn't care. Umm... you gotta sit your parents down and tell them you are extremely unhappy, you've given the new town a chance, and you really would like to live with your grandmother because that is where your true friends are. Try not to hurt their feelings or make them mad but tell them like it is. :)
Good luck!
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