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i went somewhere this weekend. but before i left i was talking to my boyfriend. and he was in a really really bad mood. he was supposed to get a phone call about this thing that he had to do. the person hadnt called him yet. and i was about to leave i had called to say bye and he told me that if he didnt get his phone call it would be over and when i asked him what he meant he said "it will b over" i was so scared the whole time i was gone. then when i got back today, his moms car was at the church and i was afraid that he had killed himself while i was gone. but he hadnt. he had been very suisidal latly. should i talk to him about it?

well yeah talk to him about it. tell him how much he means to you and tell you need him and find out what the call was about and who it was from. and tell him that you love him. but if i were you i would try to help him and if he doesnt say nething about it just break up with him. you dont need that if he isnt going to tell you stuff then he isnt worth it. just talk to him though he may need someone to talk to about it.

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my boyfriend hadnt talked to his ex fiance in over 4 years. last monday they started talking again. and now he plans on going to see her this summer. i was pretty upset when i found out. but should i be worryed about him going and cheating on me?

i would because if they were almost to the point where they were going to get married then that means they loved each other alot and if its true love it will always find awayback.. but thats just me. find out why they didnt get married and stuff and find out why he wants to go see her and why she cant come down here to see him. just t alk to him..

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How are you supposed to comfort ur boyfriend when one of his friends die and the other is in critical condition in the hospital? he says hes fine but I know he isn't.

dont. just let him have his space. when someone dies that your close to you need to vent some people do it different ways. just back off and when he is ready he will come to you. just let him know you are always there for him and when he is ready your there. and just let him do what he needs to do.

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suzin is a uncle fucker because you fuck your uncle
newayz i have a ? are you gay

haha NO!! what kid of question is that?? god!! grow up.. j/k.. no im not gay.. and you found me out i am an uncle fucker.. j/k

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So, i was feeding my gerbils when they started to eat their babies. I freaked out, so then i got my baseball bat and fucking raped those two gerbils with the bat. Then i got some little bags (which im selling on ebay for $1.99 a bag) and put then in them and took them in my car and drove off to go find a place to burry them. I found a little forest type area to burry those canible sons of bitches and burried them real fast. I then took off hoping no one saw me...but i was watched..Some old fat bitch saw me burry the gerbils and called the cops. It didnt take too long untill the police came to my front door. They ask me all sorts of questions. I then told them that i was just burrying my pet gerbils. All of i sudden then said "Well, that is illegal here in Texas so we got to give you a 50 dollar fine for what you have done." So, now im pissed that i have to pay that mother fucking fine and I am asking you now what should I do? I've been thinking of beating the shit out of that old bitch and head butting her in the tits. But that is just my angers advice. So, what should i do?

haha thats kinda funny but umm.. dont be a dumbass and get in more trouble. just pay the fine and leave that bitch who told on you alone.. ok well i have a question.. who are u?? thats pretty funny the whole ebay thing.. but neways im sry about ur gerbils..

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Whats 5 times 5 plus 6?

haha
5 times 5 plus 6 is
31..

its not that hard!!

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as a kid, was a skid no one knew me by name, trashed my own house party CUZ NOBODY CAME!

i love that song so much!! i love sum 41.. mostly steve.. he is the coolest.. call my cell he's my voice dude.. he is great.. i love him...

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what is the easiest way to tell if a guy tells you that he likes you to either make you happy or to get you off his back???... because there is this guy who told me he liked me but now i get the feeling he only did it because he didnt want to hurt me so im trying to figure out how to tell if he really meant it or if he just said it for that reason.

ok if this is michelle benji said get over yourself.. she said that maybe you need to start talking to guys yourself instead of sending other people to do it because thats how you start to get attached to ppl is by talking to them..

answering the question now..
there really isnt a way to tell if a guy really likes you.. just wait it out.. and if he really likes you then he will eventually ask you out.. if he doesnt really like you he will find someone else..

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hey susan i dont know you that well but its heather !

yea so i mean niCKY doesnt realize what she does to me .. i mean i used to be one of her best friends and im not anymore. i NEVER EVER see her cus shes in 9th grade and im in 8th .. and shes like always changin .. and i mean i dont really like how she says she likes all these guys .. but shes goin out with one. and also squirrel is one of my really good friends so its hard what to think when he tells me stuff about her. i know that she means well and i love her TOOOO DEATH U HAVE NO FUCKEN IDEA ! SHE IS THE CLOSEST THING I HAVE ! but we have just grown so apart .. i mean it makes me cry so much .. she never calls me anymore or talks to me .. i just feel like shes completely forgotten me and moved on to other people .. so honestly what should i do cus she just doesnt seem to understand what an impact she has had on my life !

thanks !

- HEATHER

try talking to her.. call her and tell her how you feel and stuff.. tell her how much she has changed ur life and tell her that you need her as a friend.. she is my bestest friend and i think she will realize whats shes done and she will start talking to you.. i hopethings go good with you and her..

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Theres this guy who i really like and he says he likes me too but he wants us to "date" more before we actually become girlfriend and boyfriend because he says it will help him get to know me more... should i agree to that or should i forget about him and move on???

you should agree.. it seems like he wants to go out with you but he wants to know you more.. getting to no someone before you go outwith them does help alot.. i mean would u rather go out with someone you dont no and then find out that you rly dont have anything in common and then break up and go through the whole i hate you stuff or would you rather get to no the person and if they dont have things in common then just be N friends and if u do then you 2 can go out ..
i think its easier to get to no the person so go with his idea.. it rly wont hurt.. its a good idea

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hah..funni you dont know who this is...

so what..thats the whole point of this

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hi homemadeshakes, there's a girl that i really love and care about and have for a long long time. we've gone out before but not quite sure why we stopped. she's been going out with different guys since then and ive dated other girls but she has met a guy she really likes but i havent with the girls. i talk to alot them now and hung out with a few..gone out with one. i try to like them and i have one of them alot i thought but i still feel so empty with her..then i think about the old girl that i still love. we still talk and r good friends but i keep wanting to stop hearing her voice on the phone and completely stop talking to her because it hurts alot. what do you think i should do?

well sir.. tell her how you feel.. maybe she feels the same way about you she just doesnt thing you still like her that way.. if you think that not talking to her for a while is going to help just tell her that you still love her and that you want to be friends with her but its hurting you right now.. and you need some timee to get over her.. just talk its the best thing for you right now.. holding your feelings wont get you anywhere very far.. trust me.. i know..

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okay well im a guy and in the locker room at school after football practice i look at the other guy's asses and i get this really weird feeling.. i think i'm gay. what do i do when i tell people?what do i say?

umm... i dont know what you should do. i guess just tell them your gay. i dont know

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i have been single for a long time and its really hard for me to get into a relationship... wht should i do to maybe help me get a boyfriend or should i just let them come to me??

just let them come to you. it wont be so stressful. promise dont worry about it

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sean you are soo gay i really thought some one had hit an old guy. thats soo mean but i still love you

you should be shot for that because what if one day you really do hit an old guy well you are driving your going to feel really bad. wait my bad its sean im talking about your just going to drive off laughing and saying stupid olf hag

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so y have u been sick suzin y oh y do u have 2 be sick i dont know y cause im in jjaep for doing cocaine isnt that great get un sick suzin ok love ya

im sorry jaimes that im sick. i dont like being sick. and ilove you too. god you a loser for doing that. but i bet you wont do it again now will you!!! you need to hurry up and come back justin is starting to scare me. he needs you to be there for him. but be good and i will see you sometime soon love you bye

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yesterday i was driving and i smashed an old guy, should i forget about him or keep having flashbacks about the incident?

how sad. did you stop and help the old guy.

i hope you did. im really sorry. if that was me i would be heart broken. your going to have flashbacks of the incident you cant stop those nomatter what you do. when you have them just remember that your okay.

sooner or later you will forget about him but it will take a while

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my frnd is kinda messed up it upsets me cause hes not that happy ne more he just doesnt have the will power 2 do ne thing ne more i want 2 help but dont know how love ya suzin

jaimes i tried to help him to but its not working. i thought maybe if he was going out with heather then he would get over me but i guess not. i just gave up gave up on him. he has to find out that people really do care about him him self and he needs to stop thinking about himself. all he is doing is hurting others. but i love you to

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hey i dont know wut im talkin aboot but i love u susan wut shouldi do i love u

jaimes i love you sooo much but only as a brother. you are like a older bro to me. sorry to tell you but the only person that i love like that is tony. but i will try to get those girls numbers love you muahh

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Well there is this one person iv liked since Spring Break and shes liked me since December... I think im in love w/ her.. But she has a b/f she really likes , she said she loves me 2 but i dont want to ruin her relationship w/ the person shes w/ so i told her that i think i shouldnt b talking to her about "us" and the other night i talked for her from like 11 to 2:30 and all we talked about were "us" and she wants me to come see her thursday at some thing but i unno what to do , should i go? should i try to forget my love for her?

aww thats hard. but if i were you i wouldnt believe her when she says that she loves you. im going to tell you almost the same thing i told michelle. if she really loves you back then she would break up with the guy she is going out with now. i wouldnt forget your love for her but i wouldnt let that love be the only love i have. it kinda reminds me of romeo and juliet. romeo is in love with this girl that doesnt love him back but he soon gets over her.
you need to talk to this girl. tell her that if she really has feelings for you she needs to stop going behind her boyfriends back. that just mean. also think if she teling you she loves you and stuff and she has a boyfriend and then they break up and you 2 start going out you dont know she could be doing the same thing to another guy.
but choose what you think is best. if you think that its better to just forget you love her then do it. and y not go. you can still be friends just dont do anything with her. if you know what i mean (wink wink) just talk. do what friends do
this is kinda getting long so i will see you in class tomarrow

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