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i moved in june to the west side of canada, and in september one of my freinds died from cancer i wans't able to go to his funeral but i still miss him, and now i jsut found out another one of my firnds has cancer in the same place that my freind that died did, what can i do to get my mind off of this
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I think this is like any other situation - the more you try to avoid thinking about it, the more it'll crop up in your thoughts. So think about it. Give yourself time to grieve.
Call your friend, ask how he/she is doing, offer your support. Write them out a nice card every week.
By allowing yourself to experience what you are feeling, it'll help you move on. You can also write in journals, talk to someone about it, paint pictures, take pictures, anything that expresses your emotions.
Good luck.
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Recently my friend recovered from cancer. While she was getting treatments she was really depressed. My friends and I contacted Make-a-wish foundation. If you know an actor or actress or any type of star your friend likes contact and organization like that. She told us that whenever things got bad she thought about us and what we did for her and she got stronger. In a way we saved her life. Hope I helped! xoxo
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Sadly.. you wont really be able to fully get this off your mind.. you've been through a lot. What I would do is pray for your friend and like someone else said go to a hospital and talk to other cancer patients..play with the kids..make their day..one of the best ways to make yourselffeel better is to make someone else feel better..maybe you and your friend should go out one day and do everything they wanna do just have great one on one time! Show them that you really care n youll be there till the end! Hope you feel tons better!:)
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I know this might not take your mind off it but it might make you feel better.Maybe go to a hospital and visit people who have cancer ,talk to them and just try to brighten thier day.Or maybe even just donate 5-10$ to an organization for cancer.Think of all the things you can do to make thme proud of you and know that you made a difference.i'm sorry i didnt answer your question but i thoguht it might help and i'm super sorry about your friends.
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well there really is nothing to get that off of your mind. its nothing you can do anything about but find a guy you like lol that will get it for the most part out of your mind bc youll be thinking of the guy/girl you like ... sorry idk if your a girl or guy lol. i hope i helped! -kayla
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Well there isn't any way to get your mind of this, it shows that you truly care about your friends and your worried. I cant keep you from forgeting about them, which I wouldnt wanna forget about it, but i think that you should visit. It may make you think about it more but you should wanna think about them...Its hard, i bet, but life isnt easy! Im sorry thats all i could give ya but thats all anyone could really give ya.
Hope this helps~Stephanie
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its not so much that you need to take your mind off of it, because when and if he/she does die you'll feel gulity for not thinking about it.
what you should do is try your damndest to do everything in your power to fight cancer. ya i know that sounds stupid, but i just recently found out that my mom had breast cancer, and now i'm participating in the breast cancer walk in my communitee, and i feel good about it. try to participate in as many cancer fundraisers as possible, so that you feel good about yourself. it will also help take your mind off of your friend who died, because you're working hard to stop this eppidemic.
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