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attitude problem
my friend has an attitude problem. she'll come to school sometimes and be all pissed off and in a bad mood, and the rest of us have to deal with it. but if we give him just a tiny bit of an attitude, she'll get all mad and say we're all ridiculous and have problems. lately it's really been making me mad, and i'm sick of it. anything i can say to make her realize she doing this, and make her stop??
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well mayb you can tell her how you feel. or take her to the side and tell her that she is bothering you! but dont do it during skewl hours or on the fone. do it face to face so she know you rele want her to stop. if she is rele buging you then you and ur frends should confront her and tell her that it pisses you OFF. trust me i've gone thru this miself if i know nething it would b bout this!!! even i would cum to skewl all mad mayb its her family problems she could b goin thru sum tough times. nomatter wat b ther 4 her and her problems!!!!! Dont giv up!!!
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OH MY G0D!! i know exactly how you feel.. can i ask you something, because in my case thats how my friend is, is she like.. either hyper or just mad? everytime my friend gives me attitude i yell at her.. maybe u shouldnt exactly do thaaatt. but u should just simply tell her that she isnt making everyone else's day enjoyable because of her attitude... tell her she has to understand that not everyone is gonna stick around when she is mad all the time.. why would u wanna hang around someone like that? she MUSt have some good qualities, right? if she has a problem tell her she shouldnt make it everyone elses too.
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well do da same thing she does to u...so she can feel how its like treatin pplz like dats
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Maybe she has PMS or maybe things at home aren't going so well, and she just happens to take it out on you and your friends. Try talking to her and asking her whats up? Ask her why she's giving so much attitude towards you and your friends. If she gets mad and pissed off...Than you and your friends, should just leave her and ignore her until she realizes the way she's been acting and comes back to you and apologizes.
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the best thing to do is ignore her when she does that... & when she sees that no one wants to pay attention to her when she has an attitude she'll stop...
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Devise a plan. Get buy-in from your friends. Feed the same crap back to her. The next time she comes at you all being pissy, give her the same reaction she gives you when anyone else is having a bad day. Lay it on thick - make it drive her nuts. And if she gets angry about it, just say, "Gee, it's alright you to act this way, but we can't?" Better yet, hand her a crowbar and say, "Your head appears to be lodged up your ass. Please pry it free before you lose all your friends." Or simply say, "Your attitude sucks ass. Grow up, you selfish (insert explitive of choice)."
People like this don't want to hear it. And when it only comes from one person, they refuse to believe it. But if everyone agrees to do this and follows through with the plan, then maybe some good can come of it.
It is never fair when someone who is supposed to be a friend feels that they can dump their anger on everyone, but refuse to be dumped upon themselves - it is just rude and selfish.
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record your conversation and play it back to her later, that should work.
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just ask her politely what's been goin on these past few dayz. amybe sumtin is goin on and she wants to talk. or maybe she's just having mood swings. just dont piss her off, ask her the nicest way possible if u want her to listen to u.good luk
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