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ok! last night my friend had a sleepover nd' there were guys and we all slept in the tent outside and i we were all like smushed together with not alot of room and this one really cute guy was layin next to me and when i went inside with *c* whos sleepover it was to change...everyone that was outside told that guy i was layin next to to do stuff with me like they even told him step by step n shit. and i didnt know that till later and then all of a suden he was up my shirt and we were layin closer and huggin and stuff. i didnt do nething with/to him tho. I really do like him but im 14 and hes 16 gunna be 17 in 6 months so idk if thats ok and should i be mad at my friends for setting that all up or not?
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I would be mad ... your friends forced you both into something you both weren't comfortbale in doing.
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Well first of all i think you need to find new friends! Joke or not, yea id be a little upset! You should talk to him about it and see if the only reason he was tryin to mess with you is because he thought you were "willing", or find out if he really likes you! keep my updated :*:SaRa:*:
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wut gay ass bitches ur friends were.. id b like screw u fuckers n go finds sum new ones
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Are you worrying about the age difference?
I maintain that age is a state of mind, not being. My boyfriend's a year and five months older than me (18), and I'm 16.
If you like him, and he apparently likes you...I don't see why you should be mad at your friends. But if you don't like the fact that they convinced/told him to do stuff to you without your okay, you have every right to be mad. It's really your choice.
I say go with it...just don't let him push you into doing anything you don't want to do. *Shrug*
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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If I was you, I would be mad at my friends. But, you should let them know that, that really hurt you and ask them why they did that to you. And for the whole guy thing, age is just a number, it's actually not that big of a age difference between you two. But, talk to him just be like "In the tent thing, did you really mean all of it or were you just doing all that to me because my friends told you too?" Just say something like that, I hope this helps and if you still need help, just post a message in my inbox. Good luck hun!
xoxo Kourtney
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No, you shouldnt be mad at your friends. They were probably just tryna hook you up. Atleast yo are smart enough to know that 14 is too young to be doing things that are too sexual. If you like the guy, that is cool. Age is just a number. As long as he will respect the fact that you feel you are too young to go too far is all that matters. and when you are ready tog o farther, you will know.
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It definitely wasn't cool for your friends to set you up like that, and you should let them know how you feel. Since this guy went along with it, you should make sure what he's really after, before you think about getting involved with him.
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I can't tell you whether you should be mad or not...but I know I would be. things like that should never be forced on you by friends or by the guy. just tell your friends that you'd rather they didn't interfere like that next time. and if this guy is worth it then he will respect you enough to take things at a pace that you're ready for.
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